>>34840382
You don't fully recover from it, but anything that's not complete social isolation will help a lot here.

>>34840382
Treat it as a much needed life lesson. Anyone who makes another human being their entire world is doomed to this exact same fate, eventually. Even if things had gone perfectly and you spent 50 years together in fruitful marriage, either you or your partner would have died and this exact same outcome would play out. Happiness absolutely must come from within, not from another person. Happiness is something you have in and of yourself, which you then offer to others. You cannot extract it from others, and you only cause pain in yourself and in them when you try.

>>34840382
By not thinking about that at all for 3 months straight. Get a job, join a club, go on a trip, get a new routine, anything to make it seem your life is now different and you're focused on something else.

And don't fucking look back. Personally I wouldn't delete pictures, but some people are way too weak so they have to get rid of everything

>>34840382
You don't.

>>34840382
You're gonna suffer for months. Ask me how I know. :D
You've learned a painful but very valuable lesson. Don't bend over backwards for people who won't show up for you like you do for them.

>>34840382
You behave like this because you get NO PUSSY. You have NO HOES. That girl is just one in the sea of many but you don’t realize that because you are putting her on a pedestal. You need to start talking to more women, even if it’s just to make more friends

I love that I don't need to even read a single thing in this thread and just know I keep my promise to her and she shows up in my arms

>>34840382
You accept it and distract yourself while the pain gradually lessens. Distract yourself productively, not by dwelling on it.
It feels rough, but someone just not being into you is honestly easy mode. The real pain is when third parties deliberately interfered with your relationship, or if you got burned like cheated on and they stole a significant chunk of your life. That shit has no cure besides mentally compartmentalizing it as a chunk of your life that never happened because any positive memories are now poisoned by the fact that you were being played.

>>34840382
Do what I do, since my ex of 5 years cheated on me intentionally behind my back, devised a perfect plan, and executed it, went and found a perfect dude according to her standards, cheated on me, left me for him, and is now living with him for 2 years, total zog annihilation, I have been destroyed royally, totally. I'm fucked, beyond fucked.
Do you know why? Because I MOVED COUNTRIES for this girl. I'm in a country where I get mogged by everyone as a middeterreanen slave, by beautiful tall blonde chads.

How did I deal with it?
Neetdom, loneliness.
Developed mental illnesses akin to ocd, autism and anxiety, none of which I had before (except for slight anxiety)
At some point, you haven't spoken to anyone, you've let go of any notion of being a human. The world just lives on and survives on and you're doing nothing. You're meaningless, to your haters, to your lovers, to everyone who remembers you - you're nothing. You're not important because so much time has passed and no one has heard from you. Nothing matters. Achievements, lack of achievements, girlfriends, you sort of grow out of it. Nothing phases you anymore and you are safe in your total zog death sphere.

Now you may say, oh he's sad, surely?
Sometimes, but on the overall, I've grown so much internally. I just don't care anymore, none of this matters because I don't matter. I'm not a perfectionist because I'm not perfect anymore. I'm not going to get a gf, shame goes down. I don't try so I'm not scared, if I do try, I just don't care. Because I don't matter. No one remembers this, no one remembers me. I'm not important.

This is the total zog death mentality, and it WILL help you to get over EVERYTHING that's happened to you.
I've still seen people, got hobbies, went to school even shortly, but overall, I just don't care anymore. I'm not that important. I'll shoot my shot if I get the chance, but I really don't care what happens because people love me anyway, no one cares.

>>34842808
>third parties deliberately interfered with your relationship
Still recovered from coltons lies and decievments.

I know when I hear from her then we will be set. As long as I don't allow my self to be in conned into losing her.

>>34840596
The worst part is that it was a guy. Like the first guy I've ever been in love with. I thought dudes were supposed to be easier.