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What to do if i have a embarassing shit reputation
Is it over?
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>>34840756
embrace what you did, apologize if you respect the people it affected, and move on.
if the people don't want to deal with you anymore, then you can't change it.
you gotta give more details on what you did
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sorry, now you have to be a salesman
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>>34840756
Wah, I did something bad and want advice but can't be fucked to provide any details.

Fuck off. Maybe if you actually tell us what the fuck you did, how people reacted, aka SOME DETAIL i could fucking help.

Or just cry stupidly to the wind.
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you do what you can, the saying goes "the best moment to change was 10 years ago, the second best moment to change is now"
are you in a difficult situation due to your actions and circumstances? ultimately all the advice and reassurance you could earn with a general question like that one is "deal with it", everyday ask yourself what can you do to improve or at least prevent your situation from worsening
that's it
there are no silver bullets, no magic words that change everything back the way their were
there is only you and the cards you have left to play, good luck
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>>34840756
I would apologize, leave everything clear and move somewhere else, so ghosts from your past can't come and fuck you up in your new place
if your reputation is only embarrassing and not criminal, people gets over it over time, you can even go back to the place you ran away from
also give time to any event and the gravitas of it diminishes tremendously, both for you but specially for the rest.
I did a lot of ridiculous things when I was in 1st year uni and I thought people would see me and point and laugh but I recently stumbled upon many of them and they were so happy to see me and didn't even remember those things, they were embarrassed by their own clownish stuff
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>>34840756
what is the worst case?
you get imprisioned for owing money.
no worries. they won't kill you.
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>>34841133
not OP. but thanks.
gives me confidence in returning to chemistry.
maybe one day.
but first i want to learn farming then carpentry.



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