Incel virgin matched with the most perfect girl on Hinge. We have been talking nonstop and I started falling for her big time and we went on a date it was great but halfway she said "I'm non-monogamous and always have been. I told her I'm not interested in that and she said "I really like you we can just be FWB if you want". As an incel I don't really know how to feel about this? She still talks to me like we're dating but shes seeing other people and told me not to catch feelings for her. My friend told me I hit the jackpot because I get to fuck this girl and still look for my soulmate or whatever but I feel weird about it's like that movie 500 days of summer. It doesn't help I'm not getting any other matches so I have nothing else going on my life. It's like I just have this fake not real non-relationship relationship.
>>34841948Non-monogamy is amazing - but only if you're non-monogamous, and you clearly aren't. If you get involved with this woman, it will be a disaster for you. Let her find someone who's a better match for her, and keep looking.
>>34841948Bro she's a whore. You met on an app ffs.Move on and find a real woman.
>>34841948Fuck her once to see what it's like and move on.
>>34841948She said it herself. She doesn't see you as a partner. She will settle down at some point but she's just a whore, a hyena. You don't like the situation so you shouldn't walk into it. However, if you're inexperienced, she can be the friend who teaches you to fuck or whatever. Never see her as a romantic partner, and if you do, you should just quit.
>>34841948So whats the problem exactly? Do you want sex or not? If you want sex go ahead, but if you dont want sex then cut contact. Theres no reason for you to be simping around. Also I dont recommend being an incel or a virgin on hinge or any other dating apps, its the most crushing to your self esteem and completely fucked. Your soulmate is where you believe she is. If you like nerdy anime shit, go to a anime convention. If you like museums go there. All dating apps make men and women whores and you hardly ever are going to find someone with romantic intent.
>>34841948If you weren't a virgin, I'd say take the FWB thing.FWB is chill. It's as the name describes, but it only works when both parties aren't into each other enough to want anything more. But it can also cause problems when it goes on too long and one party forgets it's not serious, the other starts dating someone they like and wants to stop fucking.Polyamory is the cuck shit where a girl expects you to have feelings, treat it like a relationship, while she fucks some other guy openly.Either way, if you're a virgin already catching feelings, you're probably not going to handle the FWB thing. Do it if you care more about sex/losing your virginity. But if you're fantasizing about a relationship, you're going to get hurt.
the important thing is to lay down your boundaries. women will literally come over to get dinner and fuck you after being with an 8x6 silverback buck all day long without washing if you let them.
>>34841948you're unironically playing the role of a woman right now and engaging in her harem. how does that feel?
>>34841948If being shaped to your soulmate matters to you then don't lose those experiences on a hook up. If you feel like you have feelings for them then you will need to gauge is they are willing to give it a shot or if they are basically telling you they are not interested romantically and would fuck as a back burner situation.
>>34842100hahah based dubs>>34841948honestly, depends on you.Are you alright with laying with girl who maybe got nutted in or throatgotten by some fella before she came to meet you?Are you sure you wont catch a stray sperm when kissing her?Are you sure you wont develop feelings and "I can save her" mentality?Anyhow, YOU CAN do better. thats the bottom line.gr8 movie bdw. Big lesson.
>>34841948People are a package deal. She's not the most "perfect" woman because she wants to do something that don't like. Everytime someone says someone is perfect, its almost always followed by " but she's -"but honestly kinda sounds like you should just do it, i have a weird feeling about it anon. I nutted in this hijabi with a massive ass during all of covid lockdown. it was guaranteed not to work but it taught me a lot and in the end, I got laid during covid when everyone else was isolating.
>>34841948>perfect girl>non monogamouscome the fuck on now... Are you fucking serious right now?
>>34842100based. she’s prob crawling with semen at any given moment
>>34841948Tbh you might not come up with this situation again lol.I say have her as a bit of practice and fun but at the same time I know how hard that can be as a virgin.Pro-tip: the first girl I was with was a similar situation. Whenever I was drunk with buddies I got sad over it because I was a sensitive boy and actually liked her while they were all trying to tell me it's the most ideal situation to be in. I ofc fucked shit up being like a woman over it asking if it means anything f to her etc and obviously scaring her off XDIn short, you really need to stop romanticizing her. She just revealed to you she's a hoe who is non-monogamous (so she is constantly getting dicking, probably even shortly after you hang with her). You need to get it through your head she isn't the girl to be romanticizing over. I say take her up on the offer, don't force anything/relationship/what are wes etc. and for the love of everyone here......keep your mouth shut and do not talk too much about feelings and shit lol. Trust me on that one through my mistakes.
>>34841948I can't tell you whats right but whatever you do O hope it'll help you in the future
>>34841948I went for it in a similar situation and definitely wouldn’t do it again. But hey might work for you
>>34842148pretty much this, get some experience and then dip out
>>34845560so like, at this point, is fucking this girl any better than fucking a hooker except for the legal risk? i mean you still have to pay her too.
>>34841948Maybe just use the oppor to lose your virginity since you won't have many other opportunities. Then go monkey-branch someone else
>>34849728I mean....if others guys are getting in on it OP probably should too. Surely if he plays his cards right it would be cheaper than prostitutes
>>34849730what do you get out of losing your virginity with a whore like this girl? like say its just one time, and she doesn't stick around to show you how to practice fucking better through multiple sessions. is it really worth it?>t. 35 y/o wizard been waiting for love
>>34841948She sounds gross. >I'm just a whore, I always have been
>>34849862If I'm reading that other thread about how not to be a nice guy right you're supposed to call her out for that because that is negging and she will crave you for it>I'm non-monogamous and always have been>Oh so you're a whore incapable of true connection and proud of itthen she'll hate you but she'll also fuck you. But in this case she was already going to fuck you if you want it.
>>34850569What if fuck her like 10 times and then say that after telling her she is nothing but a hole to me. Will she marry me then or is that too harsh
>>34841948fuck her while still searching for a better one because she's ok with that and also doing that
>>34841948Soooo you're hot enough to be chosen, the answer is yes, but then you know.... Keep dating. Because falling for a girl who's actively fucking others will make you feel quite bad in the long runThough yeah, I probably couldn't do it.
>>34845142>crawling with semen
