so like my hb (just friends) said he was gonna buy condoms so we can crack on the weekend kinda nervous what do I do, I don't think I'm ready
>>34841956then don'tproblem solved
>>34841956>I don't think I'm readyThen - and I mean this quite seriously - it is absolutely essential that you don't have sex until you are ready.
>>34841956I hear it's pretty common for guys "experimenting" with homosexuality to chicken out when they're about to have a real life gay sexual experience. Just tell him no and to find another dude's butt to plunder.
You should be nervous. Your butt isn't genetalia, it takes a bit more prep. Even a vagina's first time is norrmally painful, so I dunno, think through bud, seriously. If you're not comfortable to say "no" it's probably a bad idea.
>>34842136wait I'm a girl I forgot to mention that... sorry my bad for not clarifying!!
>>34841956>I don't think I'm ready...then don't?
>>34841956if you don't trust them to be your first, then tell them no.where's the problem?
>>34842136i could tell this was a girl from the way it was written you need to be able to Tell. Anyway do not have sex unless ur ready.
>>34841956>>34841956Dont give it away to a hook up. Save it for who you are choosing to be with long-term. Trust me. It means a lot to have those experiences with that person , shaper yourself sexually and such to them.
>>34841956Yeah so personally I can't speak much to this. But I believe that sex is the highest form of intimacy and trust in a relationship. If you don't feel your relationship is ready to go to that level, then don't.
>>34841956If you're not ready then just don't do it
>>34841956If you don't feel it, don't. Look for a guy who is chill and doesn't take fucking as a foregone conclusion. Someone you can just hang out with and do other stuff if you don't feel like full on sex yet and who won't seethe about it if you do is ideal.>>34843033One of my biggest regrets in life is listening to this retarded shit and passing up on some cool women while unnecessarily delaying my first time. Its just cope garbage from losers who can only find a single person and then have to cling on with all the might that desperation affords.
>>34843304>One of my biggest regrets...that advice has only ever applied to females
let a homie crack whats the big deal
>>34842431>>34842487OP is a man until tits are posted
