im 26, turning 27 soon. Cant find a job despite having a degree in computer science. never had a gf even though i was lucky enough to be tall and decently attractive. people i knew from college are light years ahead of me. many are getting married, some even have kids, few moved to different countries. I dont know anyone my age in my situation. i feel like i am fucked beyond redemption. the prime of my life is over. i wasted it all...what even is the point in doing anymore honestly. i dont want to be a 30s virgin man working a shit low paying job...i am fucked beyond redemption
As someone in a similar situation... Got a CS degree, had an hard time finding a job, never married, is in his 30s... Don't worry too much. You'll notice, at some point, that all issues are inside you, and that happiness is something you find in yourself. Stop looking at other people, and find what you really want for yourself and work toward that, step by step. Marrying and kids is not for everyone, if you didn't pursue it before, maybe you don't really want it. I ended up finding happiness in small things and hobbies. I've been quite happy lately. There is a saying that men have 2 lives and the second starts when they discover they have only 1. It's something a lot of us experience.
You know where you'll always find a job?Construction, you always can find jobs in construction.Become an electrician, those have pretty good pay.
>>34843248Construction fucking sucks, if you have a choice and a tiny bit of intellect you should NEVER work at constructions and always strive for white collar work. WHATEVER IT TAKES. Make a loan, beg your parents and friends, whatever.