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I wanted to see if my girlfriend would cheat on me. Made a fake profile, used pictures of some guy that would obviously be her type, put a location in my biography that's not too far away from her, and messaged her, asking if we can get to know each other. Her answer
>"Presuming it's romantic in nature? I am happily taken."
Then I asked her if she really doesn't want to meet regardless, that no one has to know.
>"Absolutely not. I am not that kind of person."
I then stopped messaging

Yet I am still not assured. I was never cheated on or cheated myself, yet for some reason, I'm still anxious that she might one day somehow meet someone else. I've heard countless stories of women fucking over men in the most brutal of ways, and that being a boyfriend nowadays is basically a humilation ritual. Is it all exaggerated?
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Holy fucking autism. Stop doing this or eventually she will put one and two together. Women are retarded but they're not THAT retarded. You will know if she cheats if you pick up on small things she does, or any changes in behavior/her schedule. IYKYK
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It happens to a lot of guys. A hell of a lot. But you somehow seem to have become one of the few who probably doesn't need to worry about it and you're still not satisfied.
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>>34843160
Shes not going to cheat as most women don't statistically less than 20% of all people cheat.But she is going to rightfully ditch your ass if you keep sperging and making yourself insane with insecurity by reading garbage on the internet.
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>>34843160
your fear will defeat you

type of dude to cheat first so his gf doesnt cheat on him first ergo fucking up the relationship and the girl for future

do women cheat?

some do some dont. Dont hang your value and self esteem on something outside of your control.
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>>34843160
Anon get your ROCD in check before you crash this relationship with no survivors
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>in the modern day and age
Oh, you sweet summer child.
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>>34843160
>Yet I am still not assured.
Serious question: what would it take to reassure you?
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>>34843160
>Is it all exaggerated?
There have been studies done on this. The numbers that come out of them fairly consistently suggest that about 12% of women cheat, and about 25% of men. So, the answer to your question is that some women cheat but most don't. Your girlfriend is obviously one of those who doesn't.

You should be aware that your inability to trust her is going to destroy the relationship, and will destroy it really quite soon if you don't get a handle on this. You should seriously consider breaking up with her and not dating anyone else until you get this under control. Your girlfriend deserves better than this.

t. man who does not cheat
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>>34843160
She knew it was you and she genuinely wouldn’t have cheated but now she’s pissed off at you fir pulling that retarded stunt so now she will probably try to cheat on you as revenge
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>>34843160
You have paranoia. Seek help.
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>>34843160
first off: you must stop obsessing over her. this is the most important!
if you do not want to end in the creep zone in the end.
second:
the natural modalities gave women the tendency to adapt the hobbies and world views of whoever cums into them. when she fundamentally starts disagreeing with you, picks up other hobbies and is generally not on your side anymore, this means, she has fucked someone else. man... you are actuall really... you would have to learn way too much for just one 4chan post for my tired and lazy ass to compile for you. especially tired.
rian stone
rollo tomassi
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>>34843635
nope... she is gaslighting herself at this stage, if it were the case. but he should not ever do it again!
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>>34843297
it is important for future genes to be certain you are the father. there is reason behind needing her to be loyal. for men this is absolutely important.
but the way he does it is the wrong way. just the wrong way. women need to be handled more gently.
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>>34843297
Women don’t include sucking dick in their body count
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>>34847495
Catholics don't include anything else in their bodycounts either
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>>34843444
Video proof of his gf cheating on him so that he's no longer stuck wondering
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>>34843160
Well why are you not enough for her
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>>34843160
>Presuming it's romantic in nature?
OP there is one concern. She knew his intention from the start so why even respond?

There is a larger lesson here for men everywhere. Women know the intention of men that approach them be it irl or on social media. They are not naive and have parried with men attempting to stick it in since puberty. When she insist they are "just a friend" they are lying but know you won't do anything about it even after its too late.
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>>34847495
Women also fail to acknowledge most of their hook ups with randoms
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>>34849765
OP here. Our social circle include both women and men, everyone here knows each other. I also talk to other women sometimes. We're both friends with the same guys and girls. Does it concern me? Yes, it does, but I am a very jealous person naturally. She did tell me that she wants to have children with me soon and I genuinely feel loved by her. But women and men being friends with each other here is just something I'll have to live with.
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>>34843160
You're paranoid. It's likely to ruin the relationship. It will be self-fulfilling. Good luck, retard.
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>>34843160
People don't cheat because someone cold DMs them offering dick. They cheat because they are unsatisfied. If you're paranoid she'd cheat, it's because you're insecure about what you bring to the relationship. Keep in mind being satisfied doesn't always mean being reasonable. However, if she seems ok generally you need to accept it and then tell her that you're feeling a little insecure and you want to explore that with her because you value your relationship. Don't be a pussy, own your feelings faggot.
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>>34843160
A hippie told me that if a woman isn't cheating and having sex with someone else their original partner doesn't smell that they're engaging in sexual activities therefore no longer of value, so if that theory is correct, it's better for women to cheat, although I feel like it's sad and not that kind of life I would choose, personally.
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>>34843160
You should have the Patrice Oneal mindset of "I want this bitch to cheat on me so I can finally leave" aka stop giving a shit
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>>34849912
>A hippie told me
Retarded
>partner doesn't smell that they're engaging in sexual activities therefore no longer of value
Whether she cheats or not in this instance doesn't matter. If she could no longer cheat (let herself go) she's no longer of value to anyone. Paradoxically, the woman who can cheat is more desirable than one who cannot.
What most men wish for is the possibility to be cucked but not to be actually cucked. That's what's messing autistisms like op up. Getting a partner he desires wouldn't give him a sense of security and his head is refusing anything less than perfect guarantee
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>>34847495
its over
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>>34843160
Does she love to travel by any chance? That's code word for will fuck the next guy with a boat.



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