i used to have a crush on this girl like over an year ago it was really bad up until that point i had never felt feelings quite as intense as those i had for her needless to say nothing ever came out of it i never confessed my feelings.For a very short period of time we did become really good friends but after that i just ghosted her to protect my peace cuz she was genuinely everything that was in my head the whole day it was affecting my mental health really badly to the point that i was literally looking for her or missing her everywhere i went and i would also be on my toes everytime someone would mention her name or would talk to her i would just eavesdrop or weirdly stare from the corner of the room although now its been months since we even had a physical conversation about anything i only see her like once a month now whereas earlier almost everyday and that has helped me bigtime in keeping her out of my head but i still cannot forget her completely i still get jealous when someone talks to her my heart starts beating loudly when someone even says her name.And desu after all this time i kinda feel like i have met more attractive and interesting girls before her or after meeting her but somehow it was just her that i really fell in love with
>>34843337did you have sex since then?Wall of text is tiring to read man if you want grown man advice you gotta do grown man spacing. We dont do the tiny text in tiny box.sex will help you forget her but do it responsiblyfind hobbies, talk to more women, respect yourself more.Remember = love is a win-win dynamic. lust is sexual in natureand longing is emotional lustNEITHER are love.Lust and longing are just different disorders.Grown man deals with LOVE - win win dynamic - both benefit.If a girl is winning (your head rent free) but you are posting sad shit on chans - that aint love.Realize that - love's power is not measured by how much abuse you are willing to take for someone, or how far you are willing to fight for them or whatever - love is merely a word for HEALTHY dynamic.Which means - both parties win by being together.Sounds like you longed and lusted for her but she didnt give a fuck.It wasnt special, literally every dude had that numerous times.Decide you are ready for Love and Love will come, leave lust and longing for other kids until they mature too.It really is that simple. Less movies, more real life interactions.
>>34843357longing is emotional lust woah never heard that before
>>34843357Unc cope
