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itt post any random piece of advice you have
you can also post requests for advice on a certain topic
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the secret to attraction is to make them feel like they're the most interesting person, not you
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when faking sick to get out of work, always say you have food poisoning
if you say you have a fever, cough, etc., a hardass boss might still try to make you come in, but no boss is going to make you work if they believe you're barfing and shitting yourself
also food poisoning clears up on its own in a couple days, so it's the perfect excuse to miss a day or two of work
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You're supposed to have the foot lifted when you thread your sewing machine
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>>34843410
Diarrhea is better. Nobody will ask for more details or want you around.
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For most women, at least 80% of what makes sex good is mental, not physical.
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>>34843354
Don't stick your fingers in your own ass
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Any day you are walking above is a good day.
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>girl at work is very flirtatious with me
>ive only been there a few months
>its blatantly obvious to the point where coworjers make jokes about how shes in love with me.
>after a couple of weeks of this i notice her acting the same to some other worker in front of me
Is she trying to make me jealous or is she just a ho? I acted non chalant when she was doing it with the other guy and asked her a work question and he3 body language completely changed to being neutral towards the other guy. Shes also almost half my age so theres also that
What do?
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>>34843697
To add to that theres another woman thst seems into me but shes not as obvious about it but I noticed im the only guy she goes out of her way to talk to outside of her own department.Should I flirt withher to make the other girl jealous
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>>34843712
How about just asking her out without playing games? Would you rather have the girl who flirts with everyone or the girl who only flirts with you?
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>>34843723
Im not 100% sure shes into me as we're not flirtatious i just noticed im the only guy she goes out lf her way to talk to so im just guessing
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>>34843730
I mean...ask?
>she walks up
>oh, hey, what brings you here
>[she probably responds with some variation of "oh, i just like to swing by or whatever"]
>heh wow, you sure do swing by my desk/cubicle/wagecage a lot, don't you?
>[something something excuse that she gives, i'll leave you to figure out the rest]
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>>34843367
This and just generally be happy to see people you know, even if you're just pretending. People love dogs because they're always excited to see you. If you say "Hi Anon!" with a smile and a wave it leaves a much better impression than "Oh hey" while you barely look up from your phone.
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>>34843354
1. How to get rid of a retarded level of perfectionistism?
2. How to quit coffee?
3. How to quit 4chan?
3. How to cope being a wage slave? Is there a way out besides becoming an entrepreneur or millionaire? (I can't join my country's army anymore)
4. Is accepting loneliness a form of self-sabotage?
5. How to start studying after coasting through school as a "gifted" kid?
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Dumping ones that I saved through the years
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>>34847410
fuck
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Last one enjoy
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>>34847420
Holy shit... These are scarely accurate. What the FUCK have I been doing with my life lol
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>>34847436
This post is funny to me because it reads like something AI generated but it's clearly not since it's dated from 2013.
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>>34847471
This one is so real.
You can always find a reason to put things off. I was trying to quit smoking weed, and I kept saying "I can't quit this week, I'm going to a party this weekend." Then next week it was "I can't quit now, I'm going to a music festival." This repeated for months until my dad finally called me out on it when I said I'd been "trying to quit" for months. He said I'd done literally everything except try, and he was right. I threw out all my weed and haven't smoked in like 3 months now. It really was that easy I just needed to do it.
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>>34847712
yeah these things are always like that. Either you always find excuses and eventually forget about it, or BOOM, on some random day it strikes you that you should just start/stop doing shit, no more excuses.

That gets me thinking. I had a phase when I improved beyond my own belief, like i went from khv loser to engaged within or three or four years, although most change had already happened within the first two years. After some very stressful years I just wanted peace and no more trouble, so I settled for comfort. But comfort is a sneaky poison, and before you realize it, you find yourself a little less happy every day for no reason at all, until you question why life feels bad and hollow.
When we struggle, we always have a reason to struggle, even if it's just to survive, and that reason is eventually lost in comfort. I think we should always strive for something, and that process should make us uncomfortable, for otherwise we will make ourselves uncomfortable from stagnation.
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>>34843367
Damn this is pretty profound
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>>34843354
Do shit and document it so you don't start repeating too much shit



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