>>34843532
Women will explicitly tell you that they’re terrified of saying “no” explicitly because they’ve been psyopped into thinking every man is a psychopath who will immediately hurt them if they are honest. Well, they obviously don’t admit the psyop part but they’ll tell you about their theory of how they should handle things for their own “safety”
Conveniently, this “safety” for them involves keeping you in the dark so they can continue to get attention from you while dodging the question which would close the tap of your attention if she actually answered.
She doesn’t mean anything by it. She just wants to have fuUuUuUun. Fun doesn’t involve anything romantic with you, clearly.

>>34843532

women avoid saying "no" because they love to keep their options open.
The egg attracts millions of sperm but the sperm all attack one egg.

Remember this well if you value yourself (you should):

Anything but an enthusiastic YES! is a no.

Maybe is a no
some other time is a no
I will let you know later is a no
I have to ask my mom/bro/friend = no

Everything and anything but a STRONG ENTHUSIASTIC "YES! GLADLY!" is a no.

DO this, and you filter for girls who are really into you, you have better relationships, better sex, less stress, more self respect and less wasted time.

All this "I like you but I like you not but I like you wait dont go, ok go now, but wait dont go I was joking hahah, ok go... wait but.."

You dont want that shit in yo life.

What do you want anon truly?

A woman who will be there for you? Who will show up?
Who will love you? Who will make effort for you?

or a playa who doesnt know where her pussy is unless someone pokes it with a dick?

Pick better women.

"she recently got out of bad relationship"
So she is stupid too.

Move on brazza move on. Love yourself more. Treat yourself better.

>>34843537
The thing that's weird about it is that she has shown me other dudes that have tried to ask her out (and even ones that were the "oh I have feelings for you" dramatic confession) where she explicitly stated
1) "I just see you as a friend"
and / or
2) "No"
She is refusing to do that for me. I like her, but I would rather be given a straight up answer as opposed to being held in limbo.
To be fair to her, that last break up was really bad and I guess it's just more raw for her than I thought. So that could genuinely be it, if I'm being charitable.

She likes the flirting and attention but she doesn’t want to actually commit to a relationship with you

>>34843564
>To be fair to her, that last break up was really bad and I guess it's just more raw for her than I thought
That kind of shit really does happen and the general 4chan advice to just cut somebody the fuck off early isn’t always the best option. The reason I went that way initially was because you said she freaked out a little, didn’t give you a straight answer, and then gave you the objection. That order of events sometimes matters. It sounded to me like she freaked out and then composed herself before feeding you some platitude bullshit. Maybe that’s not the case, given your new info. If she’s specifically showing you that she does give other guys straight answers after not giving you one and she’s also not retarded then maybe she’s trying to show you that for a reason.
That said, I wouldn’t want to play any games like that. Maybe her breakup was fucked up and you two smooth out as she recovers. I’d keep this in mind as you go forward, though, and just be wary of other little indirect games like that. If it continues or gets worse (more complicated) then you need to be concerned.
Hope things work out, my dude. My initial advice was to protect yourself but you seem fine to be checking stuff out.