How do I get over my fear of women? It's not all of them, just girls my age (18-23). It's not like I panic around them or anything, I guess the best way to describe it is like a fear of spiders. I know they're not gonna hurt me or anything but I just cant be near them for long. I can still speak to women just fine, but I can't interact with them for too long.
And that is okay. Sometimes a simple interaction is good enough.
>>34843782exposure therapy. women aren't magical beings. just find some you don't find attractive so you don't have sweaty palms, and talk to them. go to a convenience store even and buy a pack of gum and talk to the clerk or ask questions in a bookstore or library.anyone in sales is taught to find ways to keep the clock moving. so have some preset questions in mind. compliment them on something (you can think of this in advance), and learn to ask questions. people love to talk about themselves.
Can't really be getting rid of that until you're practically obligated to deal with them on a day by day basisLuckily for me at around that age (early 20s) I tutored a good number of women which meant I had to force myself to listen and eventually I had a bigger list of female friends than male friends if that made any sense. Unfortunately that didn't mean jack and shit towards finding love. Women are fucking terrible at helping you with that.
>>34843782They're weak as shit physicallyThey score higher in neuroticism (anxiety, fearfulness) on the Big 5 than males on average by a huge margin (they are pussies. That's why pussy means vagina and coward at the same time).They have "emotional labor" which is a woman's way to say "I am hysterical and have emotional flooding issues and I have to constantly suppress it".They can't even hold on to a principled mindset longer than a single ovulation cycle, their emotions will always steer then into the land of emotional whim and whimsy.So in short they're weaker than you physically and they are more afraid of you than you are of them. They really can't do much except run their mouth that's the only thing they have that can fuck you up, their talking and gossiping and giving you a bad reputation if they're feeling petty. And most girls won't do this because after high schools girls who do this eventually get their own reputation fucked for being a loudmouth. Your only fear is you're probably afraid what they think about you. Which is dumb as shit since you can't read minds so you got no way of knowing.
