i have three of my best friends ghost me at the same time. one of them, after weeks of ghosting me finally told me that he was mad at me for stuff i said the last time we saw each other. i never knew he had an issue with me and kept reaching out to him, until he finally told me and then told me that he kept ignoring me because i was reaching out to him... another one, was suppossed to hang out with me and then cancelled our plans in the last second and i haven't heard anything from him for weeks and another one after a week of all of a sudden ghosting me, told me he had some stuff going on and has also been completely ghosting me since then. none of them bothered to clarify anything, i have been asking them to tell me if everything is alright, if they or any of the other people are mad at me or what happened. i have been telling them for years now to properly communicate with me and they continue to not do that.i just don't see how it is acceptable behavior to just ghost someone out of nowhere. i am hurting and confused. i don't know what to do with that or how to deal with it. i thought we were friends, then why are they avoiding me instead of telling me whats up? i have repeadetly told them that i have a hard time with beiing ghosted. i never know when it happens or why.
>>34844408if someone ghosts you you either have some unresolved issues you're not mentioning or the people involved don't care enough to put in the effort.if they're not going to donate the calories to resolve the problem, it's time to move on. simple as.what else do you think you can do in this situation besides come here and rant about it?if someone's going to ghost me, i'm not going to give them back a calorie of my thoughts because it's just not worth it. so don't be a retard. you're spiritually attaching yourself to a lost cause.i know ghosting has become a norm in the last decade, and you can rant, cry out to the clouds and throws bricks at them all you want, but it's not going to help you period. look out for warning signs of low effort people in future relationships and don't get attached to them if they're willing to disappear on a dime.
>>34844447they are my best friends, we've known each other for a long time, their problems in properly communicating with me and being able to make any sort of plans have been repeated issues over the years. it just hurts a lot. it bothers me because i don't have an issues with them and all of a sudden i am being treated like i don't exist and i don't know why.
