i'm so emotionally dead from years of trauma everyone around me can pick up on it, i barely talk becuase i just don't care anymoreall of my emotions are dulled to a painful degree i'm a nervous wreck 24/7 hell i can't even make ey contact with anyone anymore i'm just so fucking tired what should i do?
>>34844489what trauma? i'd look for a support group like alanon or aa but idk what your problems are.
The problem about being a man is that you are expected to be a certain way, know certain skills, and do certain things to be socially accepted - and especially to have success with women. A woman can go through trauma and get everything she wants out of life still - because there is a man that is probably willing to save her and give her an excellent life. There is no one willing to save a man. No one. A man must, somehow, work through his own trauma on his own and somehow overcome it to become the kind of guy he needs to be to have success. And honestly dude, every guy has to find his own answer. You must become unapologetically immersed in something you find particularly fascinating, and refuse to give up your life to depression because of that thing.
>>34844489Allow yourself to be traumatized and radically lean into it. You can't overcome it by hiding it, can't overcome it by fighting it, can't overcome it by denying it and you know that. Accept you are broken and you will surprise yourself.
>>34844546facial birth defects(real one's not the "i just think i'm ugly kind")
>>34844703how bad we talking here?how would you rate yourself out of 10?
>>34844489Did you get emotional at the climax of season 1 of Arcane?
>>34844771harline is fucked ears are slanted very noticable actual facial structure is ok so 5 maybe six on a good day i have gotten copliments when i wear a hat to hide everything but that's only if i hide everything
>>34844857i can relate to misery jinx felt to yeah i guess
>>34844908do you have a cope cut?most people look better bald or short haired at that point and balding hair just makes you look older and unfuckable. people have a pretty good lie detector and if they see the hairline they can't unsee it.some guys take finasteride or whatever to try and fix it but its not something i've tried.if you can pull it off with a hat then you definitely have something to work with.idk what exactly the issue is with your ears though. is it really bad or like interesting like an elf?
>>34845007>like an elfkinda like that and as for the hair i have too much not too little it's grows extremely fast which is rare since i'm black
