how do i know if im those things or just a depressed gaming addicted loser?i cant wait the massive waiting period it takes to talk to a professional. the uncertainty is killing me.backstory my GP suggested i might have adhd based on my described relationship with cannabis(I use it to barely function basically)all the online tests I took are like 70% or mixed so not clear.i dont have friends, my family rarely talks to me, im afraid of girls, longtime NEET.
>>34844603you fit right in with 90% of the inquiries on this board.you're just a depressed loser. how much effort are you willing to put in to fix your situation? if it's less than 100 calories a day, then embrace loserdom. if not, then start working on taking care of yourself and finding people to meet irl.
>>34844628i smoked weed andworked out last week and got rizzed up by a girl way younger the next day. but i ruined it with my insecurity.also i cant get myself to make concrete plans and even on multiple stims househould chores are hard.so adhd is a real possibility, but the the contradictions i read make me fucking bipolar. from "wow yeah thats me" to "wtf? you cant drive a car or go to sleep?" its so wierd.but yeah smoking weed and working out and trying to catch up on my responsibilites. its the only thing that worked thus far.
>>34844813why does a diagnosis matter? you're not a teenager anymore. are you going to gain some advanced knowledge if you find out you have bipolar disorder or there's some magic meds out there?it sounds like you didn't just ask the girl out for coffee or a walk or her number? give us more details on the convo rather than your dsm manifesto.
>>34844838>meet cute girl that looks slightly like a discoutn karen gillan with darker hair and dark eyes. black leather jacket and sweater.>caught her attention when I walked up to the bus rider asking how the hell I get to my destination>didnt really notice her at this point in time>we get out>briefly look at her>we basically joked about how silly we are or that it was the companies fault or something>stuck at the same station for like 5 minutes>just do some smalltalk, "did you just start school" etc>train arrives>I get in first, she walks behind me, I sit, she goes "I'll just sit here if you dont mind" just said "yeah make yourself comfy" or something>she turns towards me and starts talking about her job, how how hard its been>we live in the same city>she keeps making eye contact>notice her parfume, want to compliment her on it but didnt>just reply with a few words here and there on account that Im a fucking loser neet afraid of rejection>look at her for one second>her eyes, her slight smile, her teeth, as she looks down a little, fondling her hair while talking about her life>literally get hit by Lighting, look away smitten>she probably noticed>keep talking a little more and asked her some questions>eventually forced to answer some of her questions>be honest and tell her I dont have a job, dont explain or anything>since I asked her for her age earlier for some reason (I actually dont care, idk why I did) the question also comes up and since im quite a bit older (which surprises her a lot) the moment just kinda fizzles out>about 30-60 seconds later she has to get out>"well at least I didnt have to be alone." and "good luck at your so and so" or whatever she said. say it back, dont look after her as she leaves>wanted to ask for her number so bad but couldnt>the endsorry if that bored you, I suck at stories.>why does a diagnosis matter?i got an immense need for certainty
>>34844934I had a similar situation where a cute girl sat right infront of me in a nearly empty train, and kept looking up at me. I was so anxious that I pretended to fall asleep to keep her away.I even made a thread to figure out if I am an autist of some sort, but only managed to get a response from a triggered normie who I suspect is a millennial (they hate zoomers with every fiber of their being) >>34846416
>>34844603Being that makes you the other. Fix your shit and the label might just go as well
