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I'm 25. I never had a job. No GED/diploma/degree/driver's license.

How can I get over my horrible fear of getting a job? I have no social anxiety, but the quick passage of time makes me very depressed even when unemployed. It will be worse if I work.
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>>34845990
how do you know it will be worse if you've never had a job?
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Stop thinking of what ifs.
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>>34845990
Feeling dissatisfaction with working for a society that explicitly hates men is perfectly normal. Being scared of it is fake and gay, though. It’s just some dumb shit that sucks, it’s not like you’re going to be shot. Fuckin’ hopefully not, I guess.
The point is that we all get it but you still have to sack up. And frankly, you make the rest of us look bad when you let this come to fear.
>pic rel
You’d think it’s too stupid to work but I use it all the time to great personal effect
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>>34845990
Your anxiety is the manifestation of your inexperience in life. Only way to get over that is to get social. If you are fat and ugly, then you've got hardmode on, sorry, but that's that - whatever you are, be hygienic (clean, don't stink). If you are a retard who can only hold conversations about anime and Magic cards you need some culturing as well, maybe watch a sport and pick one up as a hobby, just don't be an awkward nerd.

Basically, just get the fuck on with it. Yeah, people know you are a retard who couldn't complete the most basic demands society puts on children, but we still need people to cook and clean, and you don't need algebra for that.
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>>34846025
>if youre fat and ugly
No thats not hardmode, believe me.
Many people in the past were fat and ugly and nobody gave a shit.
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>seek.com/ indeed.com
>"entry level job" + ur area or "no experience"
>enter
>apply
>???
>success
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>>34845990
By getting one
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>>34845990
I hate to say it but as someone who was once in your shoes until after I turned 21, you're not missing out on much.
If you're able to save up anything from where you're at right now and own a bank account, I'd recommend starting there.
Life and all that it offers is fake and gay. If you can figure out how to successfully NEET without depending on anyone for the rest of your life, then you're doing better than the rest of us.
However, I'm not saying you shouldn't go out and do these things, it's up to you and I do think the experience and knowledge from employment is worthwhile but not as much as normies would want you to believe.
You'll still feel like you're wasting the year away wageslaving in the same way you may feel you're wasting your life away sitting around at home on your computer. Hobbies and having plans and ideas on what you would like to do will go a long way.



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