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I have a fetish where I like when a woman sits in my lap and we kiss and cuddle for a long time, it's like my number one fantasy. However, it seems that women my age (29) don't like that sort of stuff.
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uh me but im 23 years old lol, but yeah agree with you kissing and cuddle is so hot and so intimate
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>>34846658
have you dated before? long kissing sessions are not at all rare, even among normies
>>34846679
you are a man!
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>>34846658
women (of all ages) love that shit, what are you on about
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>>34846685
uhh im a girl i just love kissing so muchhh it's so sweet you know
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>>34846685
>kissing sessions are not at all rare
Maybe it's normal for teenagers but for women it seems the older and more mature they get, the less they like making out and cuddling. They become less affectionate and more pragmatic.
>>34846689
I have read a few reddit threads now and most of the women in their 30s don't like kissing anymore. They all write it's something they did when they were younger but not anymore. I think women my age are more pragmatic about relationships, it's not about cuddling and intimacy but about you taking the trash out and having a good job.
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>>34846702
>for women it seems the older and more mature they get, the less they like making out and cuddling
look at their husbands lmao
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>>34846658
every one i've been with loves making out. i was told they take longer for their taco to ripen with the mood so they preferred more foreplay than the average jackrabbit.
your question is like asking a dude if he like boobs or butts. are you sure you're not dating trannies?
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>>34846702
Just remember you're reading a reddit thread, reddit is full of the autistic and downtrodden, these people aren't normal, they're abnormal, they aren't happy.
You're reading the dribble of the refuse of society.
Remember that Americans are also fucking weird online. They have a weird presence, kinda like they live in their own domicile and then you have the city states of Costco and taco bell parking lots, and their work places, and they get there with a car so they never say hi to anyone, so a lot of Americans can go about their entire lives being removed from most of society except for coworkers and any family they live with, which can make them very stir crazy and neurotic, then you start getting some weird ideas when isolated for too long.
So now you're bored and your life is devoid of meaning, so you seek some problem to focus on, internal or external, and that's how you get these people who just have no time to stop and ask why. They are lonely. Honestly now that I'm indoors a lot I can see so many similarities between me and Americans, it's like a lot of them experience profound loneliness.
I'm from the Netherlands, a place where it's impossible to be alone if you go outside, everyone is so friendly and everything is walkable and cycle able and it's a super high trust society, there are barely any drive throughs, and City centers are almost always blocked off for cars, creating these really cute living spaces where people and the city can do activities to bring them all together.

In any case, although my reading sounds like it's doomed it really isn't. There are plenty of well adjusted individuals out there who *don't* have a weird relationship to sex&love & to themselves, you just have to find them.
Though I understand what you mean, as people get older sometimes they get strung up in the stresses of life and they don't take the time to separate work from home and then their body and spirit start to matter less to them so kissing feels pointless
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>>34846658
That is not a fetish. A fetish means being sexually aroused by a non-sexual object or body part. If you're turned on by women's feet, or balloons give you a hard-on, or you're aroused by the smell of leather, *that's* a fetish. Kissing is not a fetish. It's not even a kink.

In my experience essentially all woman like kissing - much more than men as a rule - so I can only assume you're an incredibly bad kisser. If you want to try describing your technique, we might be able to tell you where you're going wrong.
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>>34846702
Hahahah wtf I'm marrying my bitch tonight
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>>34847336
Non sexual... Feet are hella sexual. It is the embodiment of being submissive to your woman. Like eating her asshole, drinking her spit, kissing her belly... Sniffing her armpits and licking them
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>>34846658
That's not a fetish dude, that's you wanting affection lol. Though I get what you mean, I myself love good makeout and cuddle sessions. Locking lips and just rolling around with a girl, not even sex, is on par with drugs or booze for escaping this shitty reality.
Anyway, it's not about age, it's about attraction. Last year I dated a girl a year older than me (I was 32, she was 33) and we made out hardcore all the time. The girl I was dating before her was much younger, younger than me by 7 years, and she stopped being into makeouts only a few years into that relationship. I didn't put together that that's when she started losing feelings for me, and like a chump I put up with it for years until the relationship finally died.
If your girl genuinely wants you, she won't mind if you're slobbering all over her.
>>34846689
There are some girls out there that hate making out. They tend to be stone cold bitches not worth any man's time, usually Chad widows too.
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>>34849254
>Feet are hella sexual
Only if you have a foot fetish. To any normal person, they are not.
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>>34846658
That's the most tamest commonest vanilla shit, might as well ask how to find one who doesn't have this "fetish"



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