Is it realistic to want a gf like Sydney Sweeney when I'm 27 and balding?
>>34846728MAGA PSYOP.
>>34846728it is realistic to be attract to someone you find beautiful, yes.are you trying to convince yourself to stiffen for jabba the hutt?
>>34846728Your dreams could one day become reality.
>>34846738Not really, no. I tried to date girls who I found unattractive and yeah, it wasn't a good idea
if the only problem is balding then yes
>>34846758are you at the stage where you can take finasteride? /fa/ggot has a balding general i'd look at. if not, shave it off because a cope cut makes you look ancient and people are hard wired with a fraud center. if they see the retreating tide line they'll know and scout for it.
>>34846728She's mid
>>34846728Fin didn't work for me (side effects) so I started shaving my head around 26. I'm now 28 and I have a beautiful girlfriend with an amazing body. She's really nice to me too. Ironically, I could only really attract fat or ugly women before, and I think it's less because of how I looked and more my confidence level around it. I'm not saying you need to shave your head, that's just what worked for me and I don't think it's the blanket solution everyone says it is. But don't let hair get you down. Most women have bald/balding men in their lives be it their father, brothers, whatever. There are some shallow women who hate balding men but that is really not all or even most of them at all.
Balding is only really an issue if you still dress (and act) like pic related.It's a clear sign of maturity and aging and if you still dress and behave like a kid it's seen as pathetic and weird due to the cognitive dissonance.You've just gotta lean into a more mature and masculine style, like more professional clothing. And yes, this could mean going for the cliche look of shaved head and a beard.Also hit the gym. If you're bald(ing) and out of shape you look sick. If you're muscular you look very masculine and tough.Women don't have bald men at all. What they hate is men who pretend to be something they're not and pathetically cling to a style and lifestyle that doesn't work for them anymore.
No chance, chromedome. You are inferior and infertile. Just end it all.
>>34846728Her net worth is around 40 million dollars, she's a highly successful actress, and she's often called one of the hottest celebrities.It isn't impossible that bald head is stapled to a Jeff Bezos type with a hard body, a billion banked, and a widely beloved joie de vivre that actors and musicians know and respect in their circles and belove in their private life.More realistically though, you're probably a prole with no social clout, a semi-personable way of living that nevertheless is not widely complimented, no bankroll that would meaningfully change her standard of living above what she's already got, and you're a hair too chubby and flabby to be of interest as a sexual object.It's a life skill to know when you're priced out of something; if prime wagyu is above you, you may need to learn to love chuck roast.
>>34846802In all honesty and seriousness, anon:Do you think the your finances and possible status:>actual house, instead of a nice studio>nice car and/or motorcycle>possibly wearing top/well known designer men's clothing & shoes, with a nice watch and ring, etchelped you attract your gf beforehand and possibly attention from other gorgeous women?If yes/no, why?
>>34847912I live in an apartment and drive on okay car.I mostly wear like plain tee shirts and jeans.I do wear a nice-ish watch but not as fancy as like a Rolex.You're making a lot of assumptions about me that aren't true, probably so you can justify not putting effort into yourself.
>>34846728Yes its realistic to want a qt 3.14 titcow as a gf.In reality, if you have nothing going for you however, this desire is not attainable unless you get insanely lucky.I see fat dudes with cute girls so don't give up anon. But work on improving yourself if you genuinely have nothing going for you. Being bald isnt bad. Bitches love Pitbull
>>34848033Admittedly, I should've worded what I said better:I mean do you think that your possible (I said "possible" and mentioned said examples, because I guessed and don't know you personally) finances + status played a substantial role for you before meeting your girlfriend?Admittedly, I'm in decent shape, because I love to train religiously/frequently, focus on my nutrition and sleep.Though honestly, I think women barely care about a man's physique/muscles, based on what I've experienced and observed:Women care mostly about their desired man to be taller than them (and can protect her from a threat, IF that ever happens).Deep down, I think that money and status are what the vast majority of (gorgeous) women care about the most nowadays, because this is what I see, hear and experience personally a lot:I've heard women (young and old) frequently talk about not needing a man who: >doesn't earn more $/€ than them>isn't tall (not sure how big a deal height is in the US, Canada, though it's such a big deal for them in most parts of the EU). I don't think we as men individually need to become superman, though judging by my observations and experiences: Women have so many damn options IRL and online that has lead to a lot of them to pick only the absolute top tier men regarding $/€, status and height.Yet, it's kind of silly to still hear them talking about women choosing the "bad boy" type of guy, the one:>who teases her and keeps her guessing about how he feels about her,>mistreats or even cheats on her, >is sometimes well off financially too, etcIn all honestly, I don't want to be bitter and I don't want to give up on dating either:So if you'd like to share advice on what exactly was the game changer for you, I'd be more than willing to listen.What exactly made you confident enough to get the beautiful girlfriend you mentioned?And how did you make the first move?
>>34848033>>34848294Not going to lie, though I'm pretty much in the same boat.How exactly do you get a reasonably beautiful woman to be your GF or FWB?>"cold approaching" seems retarded because you just met her right then and there: obviously she's not going to trust and fall for you instantly.Would you honestly recommend joining yoga/dance classes?Is it smarter to chase wealth and status first, maybe making this a priority will reduce the times of getting rejected due to wearing better/top brand clothing, having a nice watch and car, house, ring?Just naming a few examples that this anon mentioned.
>>34849827>Would you honestly recommend joining yoga/dance classes?>t. dancerIf and only if you enjoy yoga or dance, yes. It's not hard for a guy to thrive in these spaces romantically if you actually like yoga or dance. By way of example, my studio's ratio past the trash-tier intro level is about 4-to-1 women to men on bad days or up to 24 to 1 on good days.The catch is that men get filtered extremely quickly because they>1. don't want to look gay, so they don't put their heart into it and follow instructions to get better, an>2. men are extremely shy about looking bad around women in general, and you're going to look bad around women for your first 50 or so dance hours before you get good, because dance is a skill and it's actually really hardso the average newcomer gives up after 2 classes when you need to be doing 2+ classes a week for six months to get anywhere another dancer would recognize as fuckably impressive at it.
>>34850511Good evening Anon, I appreciate your advice.Not going to lie, deep down, I don't want to attend a yoga class (maybe, possibly a dance class instead) because I personally don't see it as fun.Though like I admitted: I'm willing to attend those kind of classes and convince women that I'm having a great time.It's possible to attend 2+ classes like you mentioned (eventually become a regular) with have a ''fake it till you make it'' approach to this.For honesty's sake:Admittedly, I'm genuinely tired of still not having a reasonably attractive girlfriend or even a FWB who looks fairly similar lookswise to this.Just to be clear, I'm not look for the perfect woman.I'm cool with her even if she MIGHT have emotional and/or mental problems.As long as the attraction is mutual and she's willing to work on her problems together, then I'm fine with that.I admit this isn't the worst thing in the world, though living alone and always doing everything for myself for years:>hit the gym religiously/frequently>go to lectures, study for exams, etc>go to work, pay bills,>go for walks at various parks to clear my head, cook>go to workshops/seminars, etc).isn't fufulling. i.m.h.o.Having a woman who's attracted to me, even IF she has mental/emotional problems, and she's fairly gorgeous still truly seems worth it, than continuing to lead the single life I'm living.I'm willing to sacrifice a reasonable ammount of my time (be it from the gym, certain college lectures that aren't a must to attend, occasionally from work and so forth), support and energy who for mutual attraction from a gf/fwb who's attractive to me like this e.g.As said before: I'm not looking for perfection.I'm willing to apply your advice: don't quit, attend yoga/dance classes like you mentioned numerous times, though with a ''fake it till I make it'' attitude like I mentioned.I believe doing this is still better than quitting/complaining.Just being 100% honest with you, man.
>>34850651>It's possible to attend 2+ classes like you mentioned (eventually become a regular) with have a ''fake it till you make it'' approach to this.this is incorrect, unless during the fake it period you actually start to like it because dance is a lot of fun (it can happen)>I'm willing to attend those kind of classes and convince women that I'm having a great time.If you find this is happening, don't dance, they'll know. It's unironically as obvious as when you watch a traveling food critic show: you can always tell when the host doesn't actually like the food. It's just painfully obvious in how they act and what they say that they're just being polite.It's just as obvious among dancers, there's something about how a disinterested dancer moves and involuntarily grimace at their mistakes and their dejected stare of failure that tells you "this one is having no fun, this one won't be back."
>>34846728Sure maybe a flat version
