>Met a chick on the internet and we've talked for about two days non stop >we have a similar language we can joke around and have similar interests>we even live in the same country >she suddenly went silent for a day so I took that as a shit test and did not bother texting>day after she began texting again but the density of how much we text is significantly less>she def had lost interest however we talk less and not as much and honestly she gives half assed effort to even write random shit>yesterday I've straight up asked her if she wants me to get rid of her >she immediately responded "what? no" and started apologizing if she's not replying to texts stuff like thatidk she's pretty hot and have similar sense of humor, as a matter of fact we even planned a meetup but she's pissing me off with how much she doesn't give a shit, I feel like a liability or convenience
>>34846752Catfish. Possibly a guy
>>34846763she had sent several pictures and even got her ig, she's legit. at first I thought it was a guy though
>>34846752she's gotten off the lust stage of online dating.every online anything i've been in goes at warp speed compared to irl and you usually have to make a move fast for anything to happen before the spark fizzles out.texting is so fucking boring man. you don't have any of the 5 senses and there's not even tone of voice. if it's not too $ to meet then push for it to see if you even like the person. it's hard to tell if you can even live with a person until you meet them in real life and then live with them and their problems.you only have a fling right now, so don't bend over backwards if they're chatting up a new joe shmo behind your back to feed off his infinite attention life force.sounds like you got played for someone that wants attention and has moved on to the next target. she's only apologizing because she likes the drama you're creating. none of what's happening is real though.i just glazed over what you wrote. good luck.
>>34846765Seems legit, guess I'll just not talk to her and remove her eventually when she fucks off.I've seen this behavior repeat in women a lot, "attention bombing" and then silence because she's getting her source of interest elsewhere, last chick I've talked with was so shameless she'd literally spam "meow" when she had no one else to talk to. Fucked off from her for good.
>>34846768yeah the only way to play is play the tug of war game and join in on the push-pull by creating fake drama.online relationships overall are weird, even with friends. people are lazy and irresponsible managing them. they usually don't want to manage it. online culture has perverted everything so much that it's leaked into how people treat others outside
>>34846768That'll show em!
>>34846768It's because you pajeet fucks are so boring they want a hook up but u just keep asking "how's ur day haha" over and over again u fucking faggot
>>34846806It's not even about revenge or showing how much they had hurt me, they do not care. It's about making myself feel good and at peace.
>>34846752>she suddenly went silent for a day so I took that as a shit test and did not bother textingYou royally fucked up there.
>>34846752Some girls just like male attention more than actual men. It feeds their endless hungry egos. You were right not to go begging for a reply because that's probably what she was hoping for. It's clear that she enjoys the attention but doesn't really care about you, beyond your capacity to give her more attention. So into the trash she goes.
>>34847322How so, was I meant to beg for attention? I've sent a message and she did not reply to it. What's the point of double or triple texting after that. I've seen no engagement on her end so I left it there.>>34847863Okay but instead of crying about it, how could I prevent this from happening in the future?
>>34847992as soon as you spot the behavior, move on?if i meet someone online, i will push to meet irl. e-relationships are shit, and texting is boring. if they ask why, i tell them this. then it's their problem to deal with. if they want to ignore me as a response, they're saving both of us time.your problem is caring and taking it personally when it's time to pack your bags and move to the next one. like i said you don't get any of your senses in text, so being able to read the room if someone's not interested in you is limited.where's the flaw in my reasoning?
>>34848044I see your point and I fully agree. Thing is that it is possible to do the thing LDR if you stay consistent in voice chatting and doing some online activities together but that's teenager bs to me now. You REALLY need to meet irl in order to see if you are compatible.However I asked about how to prevent women's attentionseeking behavior and using you as an unpaid therapy.
>>34848056>prevent women's attention seeking behavioryou can't control the woman. you can only move your own chess piece anon.if someones trauma dumping irl or online and ignoring advice, i give them a short leash of time. i tell them they are just ranting and their allotted words have been used. if they don't listen, i leave the room as it says more to an irrational person.some people are emotional vampires and no amount of reasoning and rationalizing will make them understand. all you can do is change yourself in that situation - not them.people generally don't want to be 'fixed' from their own pathology, so why waste both our time trying to?
>>34846752Meet up, then move on if still no interest
