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I met some people at an event last night (we were all strangers beforehand). They seemed chill and I got their phone numbers. What do I do now?
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>>34848046
are you wanting to fuck them or hang out?
gotta give more context pepefag
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>>34848055
hang out, i guess. most of them were already married. there was one person who arrived at the event alone, and didn't mention anything about a significant other, but she was wearing a ring, for whatever that's worth.
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If you hanged out together create a group chat and text them asking if they want to be a part of it. Plan the next hang out there.
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>>34848144
>Plan the next hang out there.
When should it be? How many days notice should I give them? How do I ask them without sounding like an annoying autistic loser?
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What kind of event was it?
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>>34848372
on the weekend. with time in advance, i'd say less than a week, especially if the mood of meeting is still fresh. if you give it too much time people are more likely to find an excuse to dip then the mood sours and everyone flees.
usually if the group is still new you just plan to go for drinks at a bar or something lighter until everyone figures out interests they may all like.
i'd just be casual and short when you ask. don't over explain. just ask if they'd like to go out for drinks friday/saturday night @ whatever location you picked.
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>>34848617
So if I met them on Wednesday, asking them to get drinks on Friday night isn't too early?
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>>34848372
Alternatively you can message them individually and get to know them one on one. Send a message every so often, say something you liked, then create a group chat later.
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If I haven't talked to them since I met them the other night, would it be weird to ask all of them if they'd like to hang out? Are we supposed to talk via text for a few days before getting together again?
I have no social skills, if you haven't noticed.
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>>34848046
Meet more and get more contacts. Unless you really want to hang with them again, then go arrange another meet up



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