ive been bi curious about half a year now and feelings of gayness for the past 1.5Y but im like 30y , this last month I've started actual anal play and OMG its amazing and I never came this much before it.im genuinely debating creating a grindr account and seeing whats out there....in the beginning I thought I was just skirting the line, am I in too deep now and should actually consider calling myself gay?
>>34849119You’re thinking about getting buttrailed by a dude you don’t know from grinder and your major concern is the technical title for yourself? Fucking kek dude. Just do whatever you’re gonna do and don’t worry about the titles. How you identify about yourself with a label does not matter every single second of time. Far from, even. You don’t have to be so analytical about itUnless you’re talking about how you list yourself on grinder, in which case say you’re straight but wondering about being with a guy for the first time. Also you’re nervous. They fucking love that
>>34849125nah im masc presenting , beard and muscles and all that , im hoping to do the anal on somebody else and seeing if I enjoy it or just exchanging oral or if the universe is on my side , I get a passing tranny - boobs and penis in one!
>>34849135Oh, well fair enough. I think you’ll very certainly know whether to call yourself gay or not after you have a sexual experience involving another man. I’m not saying this to discourage you from trying or anything, but some people really do find out that whatever they were fantasizing about sexually was MUCH better as a fantasy than a real situation. This applies heavily to gay experiences for men and retarded straight guys who fall for the cuck psyop. Just don’t beat yourself up about it if you find>shit I really am not all that gay irlbecause it really seemed like something you truly wanted to do and how the fuck else were you supposed to know?As somebody who is actually straight, I am consistently shocked at how many guys harbor bi-at-the-least thoughts. I don’t think you’re that weird for trying it out because I’ve never had any urges at all. I’d assume urges are a sign of other possible arousal for you.
>>34849153I mean some smelly brute and an actual cute twink are two different things and vibes imo , im not taking a dick for the sake of it or that horny for it if its not right , it's not happening. but that's a good assessment - maybe at the end of this I just need a dom woman who isn't afraid of anal play.
>>34849119What is there to be curious about? Getting dicked in the anus? Dicking every hole possible? Might as well just try it if you keep dwelling on it so you can move on from the experiences
