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So I was talking to this girl I matched with and we talked for a few minutes. Made me feel like she was interested. Turns out she was never interested, she was just fucking with me for shits and giggles to humiliate men who have the audacity to try and find women online and then called me a loser before she blocked me.

How do you detect if a girl has this intention early on so I don't waste my fucking time and energy on them?
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dating apps are for arranging dates, not messaging.
Here is how you are supposed to use dating apps:
>match with girl
>make casual comment. it doesn't have to be a good comment
>"Wow, I like your socks in your second picture."
>if she's interested she will respond
>"They're very comfy :)"
then basically you have maybe 2-3 casual chit chat messages back and forth then ask her out.
>"Oh really you've never been there? We should go!"
>"That sounds good :) I'd love to"
>"Friday night work? I just have to shower and such but I can pick you up after work. What's your number? I'll text you"
>"Friday works! 555-555-5555"
then just text her a few hours before the date to confirm, find out where to pick her up, then go on a date.
It's not hard. Stop talking so much and make a move.
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>>34849326
There are some things you can't protect yourself from, they're part of the game.
The only answer here is forget about it and move on, don't let it make you insecure. Tell yourself you're worth more than this, bullet dodged.
Dating is like a machine where you set the standards and then put enough women through until you find the one that fits. Anyone who doesn't fit wasn't the right one, so you lost nothing. Whether the ones who don't fit are nice to you or not, or whether they are good or bad experiences, that are just a different flavors of "not the right one" that you can ignore.
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>>34849326
Pornhub
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>>34849326
That sounds like what a mentally ill woman would do anon. You missed out on unforgettable sex.
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>>34849326
>she was just fucking with me for shits and giggles to humiliate men who have the audacity to try and find women online and then called me a loser before she blocked me.
What a bitch. Sorry you had to deal with that, OP. Damn.
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>>34849326
report the profile to the site, I've had good results getting rude people banned.
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>>34849326
all I know that people who make fun of other people are deeply insecure about themselves, why would a mentally stable person waste their time trolling like this?, probably even a bot

wish you the best, OP
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>>34849326
It was only a few minutes so, it's not as much of a waste as other flakers



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