Uhh I really need someone or else I’ll die
>>34849341Are you a girl?
>>34849370Yeah
>>34849392I mean, I'd offer myself up to you, but I am a kissless dateless handholdless virgin. I doubt you'd ever even consider me as an option.
Just give upThere's a reason why u still don't have one Life will be easier once you accept love is not meant for everyone
>>34849341You are a girl, it would be easy. Find a good guy
Go to the boyfriend shop (dating apps)
>>34849341what have you done so far to find someone?
>>34849408I'm open to everything, I literally just need someone who loves me
>>34849441Well, I'm a little shy so I'm not very good at talking to men, and when I like someone I just know I don't have a chance with that person. Anyway, when I try, the relationship just ends up being nothing or friends
>>34849443nigger, half this board would date you if you gave them a chance, but i hope you'd have some standards to say no. show some discernment.it's against policy to date other patients.
>>34849448how do you rate your appearance out of 10?have you never used a dating site? last woman i spoke to about it said they had to shut their profile down because they were getting 200 messages a day, and i don't even think they were that attractive.god granted you the easy difficulty setting for dating so i don't know why you're giving yourself the mentally challenged handicap on this playthrough.
>>34849456I don't consider myself ugly, I really think that on a scale from 1 to 10 in attractiveness, I'm like a 7-8. As for dating apps and all that... well, it's a disaster, there are just way too many older men with zero sense of humor.
>>34849467>7-8you have a lot to work with. that's like valedictorian.what type of guy do you want?what do you mean by zero sense of humor?what dating app did you use?
>>34849471I don't have an ideal type, probably someone weird like me so I can share my tastes without them not knowing what I'm talking about. Honestly, I don't remember the name of the app, and about the sense of humor, they were probably old guys who had a grandpa-like sense of humor.
>>34849481i'd make another dating app and be as honest as you want on your wants (age range, your dark sense of humor or whatever, yadda yadda). you should have a large pool to choose from.are you willing to go out for coffee with people or dinner?online relationships tend to be flakes and low effort fags.
>>34849487Thanks for the advice, anyway it's hard to find someone from my country with the specifications on those apps.
>>34849481i'm starting to fag out so just going to give some general infoif you want more weird people 4chan has an unaffiliated dating site called duolicious. but it pulls on a lot of people that will be outside your areatinder is the big one and prob the best bet. it should get you people closer to your age.like i said just be honest in your profile with what you want so it slims the amount of people it draws in to you. go for coffee with a few of the more interesting ones and then tell them after whether you want to continue it or not. if your profile makes you embarrassed later then you can always just delete it.if you said you were open to dating here, there or just about anywhere you'd have a line of dudes ready so there's def people that want you and ready to love you.you can try meeting irl route but you're in a position you'll reel in way more through apps.>>34849500what country/region of the world?
>>34849503Great! Thanks for the information, I’ll keep it in mind and I’ll try it.
>>34849527good luck.also>>34849443>I'm open to everything, I literally just need someone who loves me^don't say this to anyone. it's obvious you're a bit desperate but being in this position will magnetize some very shitty people because they will know you have low to no standards.make sure you stand up for yourself. you're worth the time and effort. don't become someones carpet just because they'll 'love' you when no one else did.good luck anon.
>>34849540I know, I hope I can improve my thoughts, anyway thanks !
>>34849443But are you worth loving? You need to have good qualities that attract men. What are your best qualities? Remember that these are not set in stone, you can always improve. Do you have decent looks? Are you nice? Are you smart enough to build yourself a successful life?
>>34849563 If he wants me to be dumb, I will be, if he wants me to be smart, I will study more for him, if he wants me to be rude and not kind, I will change, and I'm not ugly, but still absolutely no one loves me anyway
>>34849582whats your discord?
>>34849584I don't have a Discord account, but I could make one
>>34849598very well, make one and we can talkyou may add me hereamirtriptylin_62979
>>34849582That's not very convincing, you know. By change I did not mean faking it, but by improving yourself. People in general don't like fakes. The more genuine you are about who and what you are, the better. And yes you can change your genuine self over time, just make sure it's a change in a good direction. Such as being more well read, more outgoing, nicer.
>>34849341Did you make the discord account? I want to compete with that other guy.
>>34849640I create the account, it's bbyhnn
>>34849563>implying men have standards when 95% don't have any at all
I don't have much luck with men either, but I've always assumed it's because I fail to see men as actual people as opposed to potential dating options. It's easy to find a man if you're desperate, but with your self esteem I'd be more cautious than not.
>>34849341How old are you lmao
>>34849672That doesn't matter!
>>34849683Womenspeak for late 30s
>>34849655>I am a desperate basement dwelling incel and 95% of men are like me and not 0.01%
everything u said so far is literally my situation rn
>>34849782ASL?
i just cannot believe how women cannot find a bf. as long you're not disgustingly ugly you can basically get any man you want. You dont even have to do anything, just be pleasant, clean, maybe put on a nice dress and guys will approach you
>>34849903for example im not in places where there are a lot of men, my class is all girls, only girl friends, i dont post anything on social media so i think thats the reason some women arent getting approached
>>34850085try dating apps? guys swipe right on anything. granted most of them want hookups but you might get lucky and find something real. my sister found her husband through dating apps
>>34850190NTA.>my sister found her husband through dating appsWhen was that, 10 years ago?
>>34849903Its very easy, just like it is easy for guys not to find gfs.>dont know how to approach>no universal methods, what works on one will not work on the other>have to power through many approaches>fear fo rejection>social anxiety>for guys: fear of being perceived as sex pest or creep>for girls: fear of being predated upon by stalkers/creeps/sex pest>for guys: dont want to end up charged with SA>for girls: dont want to end up being SAdAnd so on.And then it gets further complicated if you are neurodivergent, intoverted, had previous bad encounters, etc.It is a very bad situation, and dating apps just make things worse, because they create this assumption "there are plenty of guys/girls out there!" and ignore aforementioned issues and social conditions.
just be yourself
>>34849341Location. Pls be in Europe.
>>348502112019>>34850223there is a massive difference. the burden of approaching, planning and stuff isn't on the woman, it's on the man. plus guys have a massive libido, there are guys fucking plastic dolls for fucks sake you mean to tell me you cant find a man? so many girls my age are perfectly content being single. they are happy with making money and focusing on their career, they dont need a man. guys want women more than women want men
>>34849341Make sure to have a fitness regime and cut out sugar.Use a dating app like hinge and put specifics in your bio.
>>34849341it might feel super awkward and scary at first but its actually super easy if you just talk to guys around you. if theres dudes you see frequently just walking up to them when they arent occupied and asking their names and what theyre interesting in.in my experience a lot of dudes will make the first move as soon as they think you might have even a bit of interest in them and from there its really just reciprocating.
I think I fucked up my life.I’m 29 soon, and spent a few years doing FILM and making money with shit side jobs but it’s not enough money and I want to rotate into a different career but I have no idea what i can even do. I required money help from parents all through my twenties. Tried to setup my own films multiple times through connection but I can never get anything up because everything is too fucking woke and they won’t give me money unless you write a SHIT film that’s basically about destroying your own country.Mum says I wasted my youth and I have no idea how you’re meant to do here. I have massive gaps in my resume and no direction as the western economies collapse. I’m about to dump my long time gf and I’ll likely not feel like dating another woman.Should I get a degree? Or learn to just trade stocks all day? It feels broken and completely hopeless.
>>34849341How old are you?
>>34850261>20197 years ago. Things were different back then.>the burden of approaching, planning and stuff isn't on the woman, it's on the manAnd on a woman if she chooses to approach a guy, but society discourages that because of gender norms/status quo. And then there are expectations and desires.An easy way would be, regardless if its a guy or gal, to just approach and say "hi, i find you cute/attractive, fancy a date?" but too many issue play into that not happening: place, current mood/disposition, one's attractiveness at that moment of time, etc. Its not easy. And then there is the case of "play hard to get/he should approach first/act cold and hauty" for a woman and "you have keep pushing, be confident/arrogant, she says no but she means yes (total bullshit but some men believe that and thats why some SA happen)"... It just aint easy, and society sure as hell does not make it easy.>plus guys have a massive libido, there are guys fucking plastic dolls for fucks sake>ou mean to tell me you cant find a manSome do, most dont. Dont generalise. The types that have massive libidos for most part dont make for good bfs or actual good relationships. So if you are looking for a quick shag - sure, you can find a guy, but is it the kind of a guy you would actually want to have sex with? And if you are looking for a relationship, why would you go for a guy you would only have sex with?>guys want women more than women want menNot entirely true. Both want each other, yet both are unwilling to communicate properly most of the time, or make small sacrifices to reach out to each other.
>>34849341>how to get a boyfriend easily
"Society" does not discourage women asking out men. Women discourage women asking out men. Men do not give a fuck, and would be happy to be approached by a woman. Women just do not want to do it when they are young (18-24) because they want to bask in all the attention they get and pick the best guy. It's only when they get older/start feeling the pressure (25-35) do they really start entertaining the idea of asking a guy out because they are still single. If women could perpetually be 18-24 they'd never ever even think about approaching a dude
>>34849392then you're a...
>>34849451You could literally be a dude and half of this board would date you
>>34849341Just pest it
>>34850342>education does not make you attractiveSpeak for yourself iqlet. I like educated women.
>>34849341Snap? IG? Hmu baby gurl. Let me rock your world
>>34849441why does he look like Bart Simpson?
>>34849341Talk to malesAsk them to be ur bfDo until one agrees
>>34850376I'm sure her liberal arts degree turns you on like nothing else
>>34853382Yes
>>34850342I just looked it up and its fake, waste of my fucking time
