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I feel a lot like this guy. Whenever I talk to girls they always cut the conversation short or act completely uninterested. When they do talk to me they end up mentioning their fucking boyfriend or husband.

Just the other day I stopped a girl at the gym said she looked strong and to keep it up and she just went went "w-WHATT?!?!" then I repeated myself and she was like "ohh :/". That kind of interaction is typical for me. Its not fair that guys like me have to work 10x as hard to get girls and constantly get rejected just because we are 5 8 and not super chad thundercock 6 pack 6 foot and 6 figure salary.

Why does no one talk about how big of a deal this is?
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>>34853080
don't be creepy and cold approach them like that holy shit it's a gym not a nightclub
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>>34853085
Here we go with this cycle of cope.
>bro you cant talk to women at (literally anywhere someone tries to pick up a girl) you have to try (some other place)

I dont have any luck at nightclubs either, anyways. They all autistically stick with their groups or they are already there with their boyfriend.
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>>34853100
the difference is one is creepy and the other is just tough luck pal, try again. it's not rocket science
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>>34853080
>Why does no one talk about how big of a deal this is?
Because it's not. Low IQ incels like Elliot are a tiny minority that don't exist outside of the internet. It's a phase that most grow out of anyway.
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>>34853080
Just keep flicking through them til some agree to potentially talk some other time. Then maybe friend of friend of friend from there
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>>34853085
hows that creepy
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>>34853942
NTA but it would be creepy or not based on:
>your timing and delivery, how you said it
>if your attention was wanted or unwanted
I wasn't there so these could all go either way as far as I know. However, since you seem to relate and look up to pic related I'm willing to bet you exceedingly fucking creepy. And if not creepy, then cheesy/cringey at the very least.
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>>34853080
Women are defensive to men they don't know in general, not just you. Don't take it personally.
Yes, an extremely good looking man might have less of a problem with this but it's still a problem for guys like that too.
It has been the case since the dawn of fucking time that most women will reject you. This is because of who they are, not because of who you are. You can either accept that and keep trying until one is interested or you can be alone forever. Your choice.
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>>34853080
Just keep trying. Think of it as collecting data. Try different approaches until you find something that works.
Women will always reject most men and that's true for almost any animal.
Just be thankful we're not spiders where rejection means the female eats you.
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>>34853080
Lower your standards.
If you can't afford filet mignon you must learn to appreciate ground beef.
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>they end up mentioning their fucking boyfriend or husband
Tee hee I have a bf/husband but I'm not going to tell other men tee hee
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>>34854254
Yeah the alternative is much worse. I had a girl lead me on for weeks before telling me she was seeing someone. She was just bored and wanted my attention and had no intention of getting with me at all.



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