I lost my mother when I was four years old; my father found another woman, and she turned everyone around me against me by revealing my secrets. Her daughter would use her own son to show off—hugging and kissing him right in front of me, even knowing I had never experienced a mother's love. She never taught me anything and always let her grandson hit me; he even nearly pushed me off the second floor of the house, yet nothing happened to him, whereas I was never allowed to lay a finger on him.She never taught me anything so that I would remain dependent on her. Her family never left me alone; I constantly heard them praising themselves right in front of us, hugging each other and so on, yet never including me in any of it.I don't know if I'm going crazy, but I feel like I've been manipulated ever since that woman entered my father's life.Do you think I was actually manipulated? What would you do in my shoes? I plan to kick that woman out of my father's house soon. (I used Google Translate a bit for this.)
>>34853166>Do you think I was actually manipulated?No. Emotionally abused, possibly. >What would you do in my shoes?Get away from her entirely and stop thinking about her. The more you let her live in your head rent free, the more you let her win.
>>34853184I cannot understand how a woman over 50 can do this kind of thing to a child who has just lost their mother—and how her family can support her and secretly conspire to torment me at every opportunity. I cannot understand how human beings as evil as that can exist.
>>34853166My father left my mom for some woman and I an adult cut them both off, you are allowed to do that. I have to deal with my elderly handicapped mom alone because of them cheating and taking off so they can fuck off and die.
>>34853166you should violently and brutally torture and kill her entire family in front of her then kill her in a most brutal way .then , having done some preparation beforehand , leave the country and disapear as a monk in tibet.thats what i would do.pic related.
>>34853166Prob just financial independence so their shitty is irrelevant to you
>use her own son to show off—hugging and kissing him right in front of meThat's normal for a mother to do. Not hugging and kissing your own son because a stranger might get upset is evil.>She never taught me anythingWhy did you expect to learn from her. Were you homeschooled with no friends?>never including me in any of itWell yeah. Including someone else is the exception. What did your father teach you to expect?>I feel like I've been manipulated ever since that woman entered my father's lifeYes. Your father expected you to replace your mother figure with a new woman instead of letting you grieve over your dead mother or trying to find your own motherly figure in your grandmother or aunt.
>>34853190And the more you keep thinking about that, the more she wins. Let it go. Forget her.
>>34853166Not manipulated, just left out. It is understood that stepmothers act different, that's why we have a separate word for them.People naturally pferef their own children to children of others. Of course they would hug and kiss their own children, and not other people's children. As I understood your stepmom's daughter, so your stepsister has a child your age, and that's where the contention comes from. Yes, mothers hug and kiss their children, and your stepsister is not expected to act as your mother.It's the same with fights. People obviously take the side of their own children.If there really was a serious fight, your father would have been expected to stand up for you. But we only have your story, and nearly pushed down is just another way of saying didn't push down.How to act: Now that you're an adult, you're not required to interact with her.
