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How do I become a man worth marrying and starting a family with?
I feel empty. I have no interests, hobbies or skills. I’m not interesting or fun to talk to although I can hold a conversation, albeit awkwardly. But I don’t really feel like I could be a father that a kid could respect or think his dad is one of a kind.
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you've already identified the problems.
next step is to act on them.
pick a hobby, act on it. don't think too much. it does not have to feel right or good. as long as you don't stay idle you're on the good path. kind of roleplay into what that person you want to be would do and just do it, put yourself in its shoes if that makes sense. hardest part is doing it daily
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>>34853440
An active hobby?
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Bumparoo
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>>34853470
Not necessarily, it should be something creative.
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>>34853426
Well what about your own parents. Anything you'd do the same or different from them?



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