I’m in this stupid ass situation, I’ve been seeing this girl for maybe two months, we’re both around 30 and live with our parents. I actually own my own condo but started renting it out when I went back to school and won’t have access to it until December due to the current tenants. How do we fuck without it being weird? Getting a hotel feels so trashy like for some hookup it’s whatever but I actually really like this girl and want our first time together to be nice you know? I’ve got a job now and make good enough money that I could just sublet a place for a few months but spending 1k+ on an apartment just for that feels incredibly wasteful
>>34853651hotel room
>>34853651>Getting a hotel feels so trashyGet a nice hotel instead of a motel6, maybe a nice dinner too. Then it wont be trashy. People do this even when they have a house just to change things up.
>>34853792Nice hotels are so expensive or at least my idea of nice, like 400+ a night which feels crazy. Maybe I’m just spoiled
>>34853651Hotel room OP. Like the other anon said, it doesn't have to be trashy.
>>34853816Then get a decent hotel room. I'm a tightwad whenever I travel and try to never pay over $200 a night, and I never stay anywhere trashy.
>>34853818Just the concept feels trashy if that makes sense. I wish we had love hotels or something that would feel more normal in all honesty.
>>34853837We do have love hotels. They're called hotels!
>>34853837Like, a hotel is where guys go to fuck prostitutes and cheat on their wife and stuff, people in healthy relationships share their homes with each other and welcome one another into their spaces.
My wife and I fucked a lot when we dated and still lived with our parents and visited each other, just turn on the tv, get a loud fan and close the door.
>>34853842A hotel is where people rent a room for the night; that's all. Just don't go to a sleazy motel that's nextdoor to a bar dude.I lived with my ex for a few years, and we ended a couple date nights at a hotel just for fun. You've got some rather cartoonish hangups about this.In any case, it beats the hell out of fucking at your parents' house.
>>34853851That’s fair I feel like I do have a lot of weird hangups about it. Idk I guess I should probably just talk to her about it and see what she thinks Thanks anons
>>34853868You're welcome boss. And congrats on the relationship
>>34853651Don't have sex outside of marriage.
>>34853651Hotel is fancy shit, if you have nowhere else and want to sex then just go there?
>>34853651>Getting a hotel feels so trashyIt's only trashy if it's a trashy hotel. Get a nice hotel room. Or maybe a self-catering place where you can cook dinner. Hell, an airBnB if you want. But what's the alternative? Fucking in an alley? On a friend's couch? In a tent? In a car? Obviously a hotel room is your best option.
>>34853651get a shaggin' wagon (van with a bed in the back)
