ok bear with me now...>b me>19 yo f>known this guy for 4 years now>he took advantage of me when we were younger>reconnect at the start of this year>start hooking up and falling in love with eachother>i literally cannot date him or else all y friends and family will hate me and also i still have my dignity>a literal week ago we went for a walk and hung out and he said i was "giving dead wife energy">we stopped having sex like a little over a month ago>randomly an old co worker of mine starts posting about this guy outta nowhere>i recognize his house on her instagram story and tiktok>start crashing out desu>how you gonna be dick and balls deep in me, whispering in my ear about how much you love me, and then fucking another girl immedietly afteri know what rebounds are but like seriously wtf, plus this girl is extremely naive and hes so cunning and evil. he always has ulterior motives and likes so be extremely affectionate (even after being asked not to have his hands on my boobs) and yeah.... im mad that he seems to be "over me" because then it was all a lie and whatever and no hate to this girl, i really liked her and she was fun. to work with. i dont think she knows that me and him had our thing but i dont want her to. i purposefully kept that a very secret thing with him because of our past. im rambling on and on but yeah im feeling some of my craziness come back (stalking, suicidal/self harm thoughts, not eating) im really upset about this situation and just idk what to do. i miss my therapist a lot.
>>34854610stop stalking this guy and any of the involved people. delete your social media if you have to. ignorance is bliss here and the book is closed on whatever happened, so stop drawing out an epilogue to it.there's nothing else you can do to help the situation, so distance yourself from it as much as possible. if you have to, limit your alone time and hang out with other friends, family or even in the public so your mind is on something else until it passes.
>>34854610I am 31m and this never happened to me. I'm still a virgin too.
>>34854658i needa get hit by a car, i have so much anger and its slowly seeping out. i smoke a shit ton of weed and ive ben drinking a lot #stayinghealthy
>>34854610So... He's a piece of shit and you're mad he's not with you anymore? Why?
>>34854682fool you once (took advantage of you when you were younger), shame on himfool you twice (getting back in a relationship with him), shame on younigger you're into a cocktail of bad decisions. when's it gonna stop?don't you have friends? go hang out with them. stop acting stupid. you're in a candy land jungle of bad decisions, and you're focused on stupid bullshit because you put all your eggs in on a retard.go talk to some humans. you're a woman so finding boyfriends is the easy difficulty setting. your life isn't over. it's only just beginning.
>>34854684more so that he was either lying to me when he said i love you or even worse he meant it, its not that i cant have him its just like dam ok but yes im away im acting retarded do people seriousy come on here for advice??? i have a gay little problem and need to vent to other retardss omfg i wanna kms
>>34854839i never wanted to date him, i spednd all my time at my job which i love and it really has helped me with getting through this, then again im mad that im even fucking mad ahhhhh hes so gay and stupid but idk like why do i even ike him at all hes A FUCKING EVIL FAGGOT RAHHH
>>34854658desu this the best advice so far in this thread, god bless
>>34854892>>34854610You're 19. He took advantage of you as an underageb&. Feel and process the anger and betrayal, but anyone could have seen this coming from the outside. Move on. I'm assuming you're damaged and hypersexual, find some pent up dork closer to your age and fuck each other senseless and get it out of your system.
>>34854610>hes so cunning and evil. he always has ulterior motivesThen why are you so upset that you're not with him?
>>34854610huh so you stopped giving Chad pussy, and he moved on to the next pussy? crazy...
>>34854610>also i still have my dignitywait dating is more shameful than getting pump and dumped like a whore?
>>34854610another stupid bitch getting with an evil man and sulking when he does something evil again.
