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As subject says, I've had almost 30 rejections in period of bit over 2 months and I have no energy to keep trying and I feel like worthless utter shit. I go to gym, take care of my dress code and grooming, yet it feels as if nothing yields results. Any tips on how to be more optimistic because I'm falling into a really bad place mentally...
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>>34854611
>I go to gym
here, your problem mister Bravo
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>>34854611
Rejections with what? Women?
Tell us about some of the most noteworthy instances in these last 2 months then, give us an idea of what exactly you're doing and then maybe people can actually help you.
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>>34854638
Well it's either instant rejection with polite no thanks or fuck off, then we have cases where after 1-2 meetups she says "I only see you as friend.", "I love someone else.", "I'm not looking for relationship", "You're not my type." etc.
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>>34854663
Ok, yeah, but I mean what leads up to that? You're skipping to the end of the story (which I already know) and I know nothing about what you are or aren't doing that might be leading to these end results, so how am I supposed to give advice and help you?
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>>34854663
Treat this topic as any other hobby. Try different approaches, methods. Adapt. Observe more experienced people. Learn from them. Try yourself and adapt. There is nothing more human than facing new challenges and adapting to them.



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