I'm 30+ and single again after many years of a stable relationship. I don't need advice on how to date women, but where the fuck do they congregate these days?I'm not looking for any of the usual vapid empty-headed whores you can meet on a night out in the city centre, I'm looking for someone broken and withdrawn (like me). The problem is that because I'm withdrawn you won't find a person similar to me in any of the usual places where people meet. Including apps like Tinder.So where should I look? >inb4 psych wardsI should mention that BPD/borderline fiends and fatties are out of the question. I'm not BPD or borderline, surely there are women out there who went through [spoiler]years if not a lifetime of abuse at the hands of manipulative narcissists and are genuinely seeking someone who won't stab them in the back out of sadism[/spoiler]
>>34856265whoops no spoilers on /adv/? Don't bully I don't come here at all
Uh, do you have a public library with a reading room in your place? A great spot for withdrawn ppl
>>34856272Is it though? I have plenty of libraries around but they're mostly old people (as in way over my unc tier age) or students who are there out of necessityI order my books online and/or go thrifting for them
>>34856265Stop being a victim of le malignant narcissists le blame my impotence on le abusersStop feeling ~ooh so deep~ connection with broken wimp ass peopleBe open to whoever the fuck and test your assumptions about them rather than conclude your assumptions without evidence
>>34859361Stop posting on this board
