I'm 30+ and single again after many years of a stable relationship. I don't need advice on how to date women, but where the fuck do they congregate these days?I'm not looking for any of the usual vapid empty-headed whores you can meet on a night out in the city centre, I'm looking for someone broken and withdrawn (like me). The problem is that because I'm withdrawn you won't find a person similar to me in any of the usual places where people meet. Including apps like Tinder.So where should I look? >inb4 psych wardsI should mention that BPD/borderline fiends and fatties are out of the question. I'm not BPD or borderline, surely there are women out there who went through [spoiler]years if not a lifetime of abuse at the hands of manipulative narcissists and are genuinely seeking someone who won't stab them in the back out of sadism[/spoiler]
>>34856265whoops no spoilers on /adv/? Don't bully I don't come here at all
Uh, do you have a public library with a reading room in your place? A great spot for withdrawn ppl
>>34856272Is it though? I have plenty of libraries around but they're mostly old people (as in way over my unc tier age) or students who are there out of necessityI order my books online and/or go thrifting for them
>>34856265Stop being a victim of le malignant narcissists le blame my impotence on le abusersStop feeling ~ooh so deep~ connection with broken wimp ass peopleBe open to whoever the fuck and test your assumptions about them rather than conclude your assumptions without evidence
>>34859361Stop posting on this board
>>34856265>I'm 30+ and single again after many years of a stable relationship. I don't need advice on how to date women, but where the fuck do they congregate these days?I'm not trying to be a doomer or anything but you're gonna be pretty cooked bro. I found myself in the same position and even though I managed to find a few short relationships none of them ended up sticking or going anywhere. Dating in your 30s is miserable for men in general, there's a reason why it's a meme. You also have a horrible attitude. I see you used "centre" which flags you as a stuck up brown third worlder but fact of the matter is that you have to put yourself out there to find what you're looking for. Can you actually go pick up one of these "vapid whores" or is it just sour grapes because Norwood's doing his grisly mowing? You never know when you're going to meet that shy, withdrawn girl who got dragged out by her friends or pressured to go onto a dating app.Honestly, you should be grateful your city has a bunch of available women in the first place. My city is overwhelmed with tech bros, gender imbalance in my age bracket is 120 men to 100 women which is insane. And because we're also a very liberal American city a good number of the women available are blue haired, fugly, man-hating dikes and "non-binary" women.>>34856272>>34856279Library honestly isn't bad, I got a date that ended with making out and me sucking titties from a girl I met there, though it didn't go anywhere and she was like 3/10 and chubby (I needed a slump buster).
