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>had 2 close best friends
>I made a group with them
>They get along
>Cool trio for 4 months
>Randomly one of them decided to block me
>I broke contant with them
>They tried to talk to me but was very mean for no reason so I blocked them I felt like they were mocking me
>They became best friends, met irl and talk on VC everyday
>I miss them so I decided to talk to them
>They had me blocked on every social media even on spotify
>Suddenly they hate me?

I don't know what I ever did to them to treat me like this I'm very confused that I've never got any message of what I ever did wrong

I still miss them and wish that I could talk to them again especially that we share so many interests and talked everyday for almost 2 years. Thats so unfair
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Look at the picture you post bro. It's so fucking corny and annoying. I'm surprised it took them 4 months to block you
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>>34856785
No correlation
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>>34856847
this is why you got blocked faggot
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>>34856769
u probably annoying asl
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>>34856888
That's why you got blocked and are now crying on 4chan on how to get your best friend back. You sound like a 14 year old girl.

Also the way you type makes me think your IQ is probably lower than 90. Don't miss your friends too much faggot
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>>34856922
nigga im not OP, i was saying that OP is annoying
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>>34856932
yeah but you're still a blackass nigga
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>>34856940
?? im not black in the slightest
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>>34856944
thats good
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>>34856769
First of all you're reposting a photo from a recent thread, it might even still be up. Don't do that, lazy ahh

Second, your "friend group" is online, online people are not friends. It is the lowest form of friendship. Because of this, you can get discarded quite easily. You are quite literally - a stranger with no influence on their lives.

Ever wondered why girls on dating apps ghost? It's because you don't know them irl, you don't know where they work, study, or live. There are literally no consequences for discarding you, so people just let go of all inhibitions.

Your lesson to learn here is that online friends are rarely real friends. Sometimes you will find someone with high moral standing who acts honorably even with a lack of consequences. But for many people they realize - oh there's no consequences? I can just do this now. And they do it.
So yeah dude, online people aren't friends. I'm sorry you found this out right now, but better now than never.
Let those guys be gay with each other and think they're better than someone. They're just fags anyway
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>>34856888
You judge random person basen on their thread. You don't know me to enought to say that I'm "annoying". You also don't know how my friends acted, they could be more annoying than me. If you have no usefull opinion to share then just shut up
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>>34857085
yep you're annoying
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>>34857085
You're abrasive and defensive. You're very unlikable. I bet you started a bunch of drama and shit all they time and they got over it. People hate that shit, unless you're a teenage girl. You should just be grateful they felt bad enough to be your "friends" as long as they did.
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>>34857126
Apparently me having boundaries and being uncomfortable with being called mean nicknames and being mocked makes me annoying. As I said you don't know me privately, obviously my friends weren't a guy in his 30s
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>>34857273
again proving your inability to take accountability and admit that maybe, you are the issue.
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>>34857273
the way you're expressing yourself here is what makes you annoying
we may not know you, but my experience of you is that of an annoying person, one i'm reluctant to engage with. the thought of expending energy to try and help you feels like it'd be a miserable waste of time and i'd only get my head bitten off for trying
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>>34857273
Okay you're a faggot.
So boundaries are fine but they're also something that can be attacked. Dudes play around by bullying and making fun of each other all the fucking time. Calling each other mean nick names is COMPLETELY FUCKING NORMAL for male friendships.
The problem is YOU take this personally and that's a huge problem because it makes you look like an insecure pussy and it also allows for a tidal wave of jokes to come your way at your expense because schadenfreude is a thing and you are a good source for it.
I just can't shake the feeling that you're hiding something that really shows that you're the one at fault here. I think you have a hard time accepting responsibility for your gay ass behavior and like to blame everyone else for your problems. No one, and I mean no one, likes this. People will smile and nod at your victim story but they will lose respect for you and hate you for this.
You're a thin skinned queer.
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>>34857298
>I just can't shake the feeling that you're hiding something that really shows that you're the one at fault here.
This

OP starts with this long, boring story of "out of the blue" rejection, saying a lot of words while dodging any context (while also sneaking in that it's "unfair," as if people are obligated to spend their time entertaining someone they don't like).
Then suddenly with this "mean nickname" stuff, which is not only suspicious in it's omission from the OP post, but is framed with an emotional, guilt-trippy/gotcha attitude, as if the information's been dragged out of them.
This shit stinks of drama queen.
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>>34857298
We aren't even dudes. I'm nonbinary and my friends were another nonbinary and a woman
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>>34857342
ahahahaha youre a drama queen, attention-seeking faggot
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>>34857342
lmao
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>>34857337
I didn't thought that the "mean nicknames" mention were necessary. It was normal for us to make fun of eachother a little bit and I didn't mind that. Later when one of them tried to talk to me (after the blocking stuff) it was straight up mocking, not even funny mean stuff, pointing out things I wanted to forget and playing dumb when I tried to talk like an adult person
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>>34856769
Why are you ignoring my post >>34856975 OP?

>>34857342
Oh yeah I was right you're a fucking faggot who's third wheeling a woman and a tranny hahaha
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>>34857377
>I didn't think it was important to talk about conflict in the group in a post where I'm complaining about getting kicked out "fOr nO rEaSoN"
It's like pulling teeth
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>>34856769
Low IQ ESL ahh nigga
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>>34856975
I rarely use 4chan and I did not copy last treat, I haven't even seen it
I'm lonely loser irl with anxiety and my life was a little better when I found people that was also passionate about the same things I am. I don't really gaf about online people, they were the only people I ever felt comfortable with
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>>34857388
I told them "Hey can you stop that? That makes me uncomfortable" And they blocked me. I'm allowed to be uncomfortable, I don't mind them being slightly 'mean' to me but it was just too much
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>>34857438
That one event lead to you getting blocked? That's it?
I don't believe you. There is more to this than what you're saying and I have a feeling you didn't tell them in a rational and levelheaded, lighthearted way. I have a feeling you flipped your shit and screeched at them about it and they got over using you as a punching bag because dealing with you is more painful than mocking you to your face.
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>>34857438
>I'm allowed to be uncomfortable
Not the point.

>I told them "Hey can you stop that? That makes me uncomfortable" And they blocked me.
Why wasn't this in the OP? Why do we have to solve a fucking puzzle before we can help with your problem? This is the shit I'm talking about.
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>>34857652
>>34857615
No I didn't. I'm conflict-free person and I hate pointless drama especially with people i care about.
>I asked them to stop which lend them to block me
I think them blocking me over this wasn't because me saying i felt uncomfortable, It was just excuse for a deeper issue (I still don't know what exactly) i've never gotten any response. After the blocking happens the person that blocked me was lying about me in their server so I obviously got sad. I thought they also hated drama (that's what they told me) They haven't even tried to talk about it with me like a normal mature person
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>>34857615
Why you imidietly assume that i'm the guilty here? I don't see why would I lie about things like that
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>>34858137
>the person that blocked me was lying about me in their server
More shit that wasn't in the OP

>They haven't even tried to talk about it with me like a normal mature person
Because they don't want to talk to you. Let it go.
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>>34856769
Tell them to kill themselves then meet new people and form alliances with better humans



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