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wont go into details cause last time i made a thread here people tore me to shreds calling me a pussy or whatever, but i had a bad life experience regarding a few "friends" and idk what to do now. the experience keeps replaying in my head and i cant focus on anything, i'm very paranoid and dont really go outside, and am too afraid to make new friends or do anything in the real world cause i dont want to run into these people. i wanna "get even" in some way shape or form but everything seems like too much work/too risky, and not worth it. would moving cities be a good option?
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Were you graped? Did you attempt sewer slide (self oof)? Was there SA? Gonna need deets
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>>34856989
Get a decent therapist. Try EMDR.
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>>34857184
eh i dont think its the worst thing in the world i was just being a bit dramatic to bait (yous), but its bad enough that life has become noticably more difficult. doesnt really matter if its not rational to hold onto it and not move on, but i just cant for whatever reason
>>34857291
yeah i'll look into it
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>>34856989
Are you the guy who talked about being leader of his group and then got really fucking mad that his group started following some other “leader” they like better?
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>>34857843
no lol. i dont browse this board that much. i made a post like a month ago that seemed to attract a couple of people or one guy samefagging who's solution was to fistfight another guy. which im not doing since it would just cause me more problems, and theres a good chance i would lose even if i jump them. regardless, the symptoms are the main problem, because its like 2 years in the past now, might try to get even in another way but first i just want to try to enjoy my life a little.
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>>34857819
>I won't tell you the problem or the context so just figure out my complicated social structure on your own
Eh help those who help themselves I guess.
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>>34857878
Oh that sucking sucks, man. I thought that other poster was really funny because he was such an uppity cunt for somebody who had apparently lost their follower friends to some other “leader”. Whole situation was weird
In your case, I’m really sorry to hear that. I wouldn’t suggest fighting to a random anon online anyway. It’s maliciously bad advice. Even strong guys can get hurt in fights for various reasons and let’s be honest, if this crowd were a bunch of tough guys we wouldn’t be here talking about our feelings all the time kek. I hope you get some good advice, man.
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>>34858005
is it? or do you just want to hear the juicy gossip? its not like i see these people on a daily basis or even yearly.

>>34858025
thanks, i still feel like a fool that i cant move on or take action. just stuck. but i appreciate kind words
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>>34858121
>is it? or do you just want to hear the juicy gossip?
lets hear it
>>34856989
how big is your city? i'd advise against it unless you're in a small place where there's frequent gossip. that's more of a town though.
getting even sounds like a bad idea and not worth your time. what was your initial plans for this?
>very paranoid
were you like this before whatever happened? if you're going to experiment in a city, i'd first try driving to another city on the weekend and see if you are really more comfortable doing these other things in this other place because whatever mystery men aren't there.
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>>34856989
Vaguepost but so what if you run into those people? TF they gonna do to you?



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