>been told I’m charming and funny>have been asked “how do you not have a girlfriend” (only guys to be fair)>dress well, get complimented by strangers on occasion>take care of my skin and have good hygiene obviously>host events where people tell me I’m a great host and they have a lot of fun>zero interest from women except for the fat millennial polyamorous typesWhat am I doing wrong? Am I really just so hideous that doing everything else right is pointless?
I'm in the same boat, I guess I wasn't born for this shit
>>34857628are you white?
>>34857628Women HAVE probably been interested; there's a very good chance you don't necessarily understand female attraction triggers/how they make moves. Most men are simply not educated about women, like, at all. For example, what do you think interest from a woman means?
>>34857628>What am I doing wrong?You have the ick. We know this because you are on 4chan. Men can't pick up on the ick as well as women do, so those guys who asked "how do you not have ..." can't see the ick.
>>34857628you have to ask people out to coffee, dinner a walk sometime.tell us more about your appearance.
>>34857940they just don't>>34858185they never send signals saying they are receptive to being asked for coffee
>>34858200i don't know what signals you are talking about, but as a man you sometimes have to turn your gaydar off and get ready to die a thousand deaths (accept rejections will come) and become shameless.men have to be the peacock, do the dance, and you have to be willing to face rejection. you sound like you have a lot going for you already, but it sounds like you are afraid of this to me. i think your receptive gauge has failed you for a couple girls that at least would have gone out for coffee where you have more opportunity to engage their interests.to me i'd say the ham beasts are more so desperate, whereas the ones that still look human don't have to try at all. ime women almost never engage (unless desperate). it's like military recruiters, where the army/marines/navy are out front going to high schools trying to coerce you, whereas the chair force sits on his ass and waits because he knows he'll meet quota every time.if you want to passively change things in terms of getting more interest, appearance is number 1 to focus on. people will judge you in the first 30 seconds. facial hair that looks like pubes, fat, cope cuts with balding, dressing like a slob will get you outed pretty quick.good luck
>>34857940>>34858185I can tell when a woman is interested in me, from the way they look at me or how present they are in the conversation. I usually shoot my shot if someone is attractive and I get rejected every time. Maybe my standards are too high for myself. Pic related is how I dress; forgot to mention in OP but I’m not short either.
>>34857628How tall are you?
>>34858259ngl if i saw u on the street i would think u r gay
>>348582605’11”>>34858265>effort in appearance is gayAnyone who talks to me for 5 seconds can immediately tell I’m straight
>>34858280u dress a little fruity... but i'll take ur word for it that talking to u would clear things up.
>>34858236>muh animal mating ritualslmfao
>>34858259this you?
>>34858259Maybe stop doing so much tryhard shit. Make friends with the unattractive millennial polyamorous and network from there
