I'm gonna tell you all this right now given you are in your 20's or late teenage years. You are gonna reach a point in life where you are gonna be completely vulnerable and helpless not knowing what to do except with what you can think of. When that time happens that is a time for you to direct yourself through the situation. That means stop seeking reassurance, validation, comfort, and even love. The universe is giving you tough love at that moment in life and at that moment in life it is the time for you to toughen up and grow up and face pain instead of run away from it. Don't kid yourself that moment in your life is gonna feel incredibly painful to your emotions you may even lash out. But it is gonna happen and it is a part of growing up.
it's happening to me rn, all I want is to be comforted and loved :( this is the most painful time of my life I even tried to end it. how am I supposed to be happy? how am I supposed to get better? I go out and do fun stuff but my chest won't stop hurting and my heart won't stop racing and the pain never stops I am deeply in love with someone that seemed to care and love me to but now they abandoned me and all I want is that person I feel so miserable please how do I stop it
>>34858863Accept the feeling of hurt in your chest without trying to seek love or happiness. You'll get over it.>all I want is that personThis too will pass
