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I realized some time ago that the only real reason I have for even attempting to date or care at all about basically anything is because I want to have kids some day. A wife to me is simply a means to an end, and every trait I select for has to do with our future children (will she be a good mother and/or will her genes make my child's life easier). If I found out I was infertile today, I would quit dating entirely and probably break up with my gf if I had one. Additionally if I found out my wife was infertile I would likely seek an annulment ASAP.

Is it wrong for me to be dating considering this? This is not a LARP I genuinely feel this way, I have found sex incredibly underwhelming in the past and have little to no romantic or companionship desires.
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>>34859057
>every trait I select for
That's not even remotely how that works.
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>>34859057
you'd have to maintain that you respect the wife.
i can't say if it's right or wrong but it has historical accuracy.
just the way you are writing it makes it sound like it will be a future problem due to lack of satisfaction by one party.
i will say at the worst times kids are the glue that can hold a relationship together so it tends to pull peoples heads out of their asses from creating petty bullshit.
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>>34859188
Sounds like op's current problem.
Can't see the forest for the trees.



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