Is it okay if I try to flirt up with my older, married neighbour?I often compliment her, even sexually and she still warm and friendly towards me.Should I try to be more bold with my flirting?
>>34863093>Is it okay if I try to flirt up with my older, married neighbour?No. /thread
>>34863105She does seem to enjoy the attention though
>>34863105Why is it not okay?I’m not OP but I want to hear you explain yourself real quick
>>34863123>Why is it not okay?Because she's married.
>>34863124Sounds like she’s not all that married if she’s flirting with the neighbor guy, huh?She’s the one who took vows, no OP.
>>34863124Still, perhaps it's worth the risk. She doesn't seem like somebody that will brag about it
>>34863137Well she often calls me darling and has no problem accepting compliments from me, even if they are sexual in nature. I often bring attention to her legs
>>34863140I just get annoyed with people who imply that married women fucking around is still somehow the responsibility of other men.In any case, I don’t necessarily think she actually wants to fuck. The flirting is likely as far as it’ll go.
>>34863142She seems to be somewhat religious but she loves showing off her legs and silhouette. Perhaps I would not be able to fuck her but maybe I could flirt with her in more provocative fashion
>>34863124
>>34863142>>34863137Retarded opinions.There is only 2 actual opinions that hold:1. Not believing marriage or stable monogamous relationships are inherently a good thing, therefore flirting with anyone is ok.2. Believing marriage or stable monogamous relationships are inherently a good thing, and therefore action aiming to destabilize those is morally reprehensible. People who believe in monogamous relationships but condone flirting with married women/men are retarded or resentful and retarded. Don't wish on someone to be subjected to temptation, because God knows there is temptations you could not resist to.
>>34863093For the millionth, umpteenth time, you never ever fuck with a married chick. >Why1. - That's how you get fucking randomly murdered out of the fucking blue by a jealous husband. Seen it happen. 2. - It shows you are pathetic and have oneitis. If you were meeting completely free and single chicks all the time you wouldn't be hung up on somebody else's girl. Pining on a married woman is desperation to the max
>>34863467I don't mind flirting with a married woman
>>34863467>there are only two opinions that are valid>according to meFuck yourself. If your wife fucks around its her fault and not a man’s.
>>34863467>this woman doesn’t believe in monogamy>so that’s why OP has moralfag about monogamy
>>34863093Please leave married people alone. If a girl only has a boyfriend then by all means, flirt, get her to cheat and fuck whatever but start stay away from married couples.
>>34863093>Is it okay if I try to flirt up with my older, married neighbour?No.Put it another way - how would you react in 20 years when your wife starts flirting with your neighbour, even sexually?
>>34863506I don't plan to marry to such concepts are beyond me
>>34863484That's fine, I'm just saying if you want a happy and long lasting marriage for yourself, you should not expect other people to follow rules you don't.>>34863490Sounds like I struck a nerve, yet it's only logical. If you knowingly acquire stolen goods, don't pretend you are against stealing. If you are against adultery, don't facilitate adultery.>>34863492??? Please communicate in English.
Her husband doesnt have to know.Maybe OP just wants to give her peck on the cheek from time to time?
>>34863093how do things like this even happeni don't know any of my neighbors at all
>>34863093It is immoral. Morality is a weapon of the weak though. So you're allowed to disregard it.
>>34863093>Is it okayeh. It's not like YOU would be betraying her husband and breaking a lifelong promise, but you'd still be partially responsible for ruining her relationship. Marriage is bullshit anyway. If she wants to ruin her life for your mid neighbor penis then that's her decision, she's an adult.(also keep in mind that her husband might crash out and try to murder one or both of you if he finds out)
Lol you're really going to ask Internet strangers about the ethicality of weedling your needle dick into a marriage? What, if the husband punches you, you're going to say, "b b but the 4channers told me I should!" Get your dick wet or don't but don't for a second act like anyone else influenced your actions. Own up your own shit, whatever your decision.
I'd hate to break it to you but if she's older she probably got catcalled plenty before.Zoomer "flirting" is pretty pathetic.
a lil bit of flirting to boost her ego and morale is ofc ok, as long as you always keep it professional and cool. better yet, compliment the husband on his luck to have such a catch as a wife.that way you even defuse the situation and both are happy with you.>Should I try to be more bold with my flirting?that is not professional and not cool. so of course not. this is danger territory where people got killed.honestly, when i have a bad day and some fucker tries me wife boldly, i would prolly stra8t up murder you upfront, no front
What would happend if OP tried to grab her ass after a round of flirting?
>>34863093Go as far as possible then inform the husband every detail of what went down
No
>>34865587nigga flirting is not a profession
>>34869865not for you, obviously it aint
>>34863490If you participate in adultery you're an adulterer yourself too
>>34869068Why
>>34863093There is absolutely no way this will end well. It never does with married women
>>34872625What could go wrong. It's just flirting
>>34864035I live in apartment complex
>>34873435so do i
>>34869068Because the husband will feel pretty good after punching op for flirting with his wife. His wife will be more loyal for doing nothing and she'll find him more manly seeing him beat up op.Do it. Make their day.
I like how autists will encourage each other to flirt with another man's gf or wife but you just know if their GF got hit on they'd make a thread BAWWing about it like a little bitch
>>34863093Yes, if she likes it. You may be giving her something she wants but doesn’t get at home. But you also gotta think of the end game. What do you want the result of your interactions with her to be? Her thinking you’re a womanizer because you smashed one time then ghosted her? Her flirting with someone behind your back? Or her thinking you’re a respectable guy with decency, morals and boundaries and not some easy tool she can just use whenever she wants.
>>34863093no, kill yourself
my question about how you get to know a neighbor enough to flirt with her still hasn't been answered
Short answer: maybe? Long answer: My wife is vain. She is very attractive, social, and cultivates that for her enjoyment and use. She's fairly flirty w/in certain boundaries. For my part, I know that other men who don't know me wonder if I'm rich, or a cuck, have a monster dong or what... The flirting doesn't bother me, because I trust her, and so long as I and our marriage are not being disrespected, she and I laugh about it when she tells me. She absolutely manipulates men, and if a man is so incautious or simple to allow himself to be manipulated, that's on him....and sure, there's something flattering about being envied or admired for having a beautiful wife... bearing in mind that the part that only I (and our kids) get to see is that she's beautiful on the inside too. ... I HAVE had to step in. I was fairly diplomatic, hinted that I don't mind beating anyone senseless w/out saying it, and talked about boundaries, respect and reality. Over the years my wife has fine-tuned her flirting to prevent things getting out of hand. OTOH, OP, if the neighbor is amenable, and if there IS something lacking and a legit interest on her part, you are under no obligation to her husband. He may or may not kick your teeth down your throat for younat some point, of course. If you're having fun and she's enjoying the attention, more power to you.
>>34875227As I was saying, I live in aparment complex, so it's not uncommon to meet your neighbours when leaving or going to your apartment
>>34863105Nothing wrong with being nice. Giving G rated compliments. Don't mistake kindness and niceness for flirting. Most woman are whores for attention. Once they flip the script not only is it all over. You have to live next to it.
