>>34864099
Take him to a prostitute (if he's already 18 or older). I don't really want to have kids. Because what if my son has to go through like a decade or more of not getting laid.

>>34864099
Did you birth your son after marrying a woman who was drilled by another man or other men?
Asking this because I wish to know how do I mentally condition myself to become a spineless, self-respect lacking, super desperate sissy who's ready to rehab a ran through woman liek the avg man out there, as I find all of this dishonourable shit repulsive & disgusting.

I wouldn't take my son to a prostitute.

I've slept with around 400 women, had threesomes and foursomes, been a millionaire and been homeless. In every stage of my life, there has always been a beautiful woman beside me. I've always been extremely selective.

So this isn't coming from inexperience.

My first time was with a girl who was also having her first time. We loved each other, wanted each other, and discovered everything together. The looks, the questions, learning each other's bodies. After everything I've experienced since, I still think that has a value casual sex can't reproduce.

That's what I'd want for my son. If he can wait until marriage with a woman he truly loves, desires and respects, even better.

But I'd prepare him years before that.

Become as attractive as you can. Train. Dress well. Be educated, cultured, polite, strong, confident, capable and financially competent. Tell the truth. Don't invent stories or use tricks to impress women. Build a life worth wanting.

And be demanding when you choose.

Don't settle just because someone is available. Choose a woman you find beautiful, but don't stop there. Intelligence, education, character, values, compatibility, how she treats you, how she treats others—go for all of it.

You don't have to choose between attraction and values.

But if you're going to demand a lot, bring a lot yourself.

Love yourself enough to make decisions that are good for you—in health, money, relationships and life.

You can fall in love and still choose.

So no, I wouldn't prepare my son for ten years without sex.

I'd spend those years helping him become a man with options, and then teach him how to choose well.

Getting women was never the hardest part.

Choosing the right one is much more important.

>>34864099
teach him to not use shitty AI images

This is actually something I would save for my son, but probably not for the reason you expect.

I would tell him:

Pay attention when a man talks like this.

Not because he disagrees with you. Disagreement means nothing.

Pay attention to resentment.

Pay attention to the man who constantly needs to degrade women, degrade other men, compare himself, and explain why everyone who has what he wants must somehow be inferior.

I've met men like that.

I've been envied because of women. I've been attacked, betrayed and undermined by men who resented the attention or relationships I had.

And one thing I learned is that envy rarely introduces itself as envy.

It usually arrives disguised as judgment.

"She's not that great."

"You're an idiot for being with her."

"Guys like you are..."

The subject changes. The pattern doesn't.

So this is what I would teach my son:

Don't waste your time trying to convince a resentful man that your life is good.

Study him.

Watch what he says about people who have things he wants.

Watch whether he can admire another man without needing to diminish him.

Watch how he behaves when someone else receives attention, money, success or a beautiful woman.

Those reactions tell you much more about him than what he says about himself.

And if you recognize resentment directed at you, don't become arrogant and don't start a pointless fight.

Reduce his access to you.

Don't give him information he can use against you.

Don't depend on him.

Don't put him in a position where betrayal can cost you something important.

Distance is often a much stronger defense than confrontation.

Strength isn't attacking everyone who might dislike you.

Strength is seeing people accurately enough that they don't get the opportunity to surprise you.

That's what I would teach my son from your question.

Learn human nature well enough to recognize resentment before resentment becomes betrayal.

>>34864099
"Oh God, Dad, I'm begging you: please just stop talking. I've been listening to your old man bullshit my whole life, and during that entire time not one single thing you've EVER said to me has been even the tiniest bit helpful. I'm sure your advice would have been useful to you when you were my age - back during the Industrial Revolution, or whenever that was - but it isn't now. Life has changed, and you haven't. Men are different, women are different, technology is different, society is different. You understand NOTHING about how things work now. You are out of date, redundant, obsolete. You are embarrassing me, and you are humiliating yourself. PLEASE JUST STOP TALKING."

What's interesting about your comment is that none of that actually happened.

You put words in the mouth of another person.

A person you don't know.

You don't know his personality.

You don't know what he's going to experience.

You don't know what he'll be taught.

You don't know what kind of relationship he'll have with his father.

And yet you created an entire conversation for him.

Then you argued against the conversation you created.

And apparently you believed your own story strongly enough to become emotionally invested in it.

Maybe your intention was to provoke me.

Maybe you wanted to insult me, embarrass me, or cause some kind of emotional reaction.

I don't know.

I can't read your mind, and I'm not going to invent your motives the same way you just invented someone else's.

But I can observe what you actually did.

You filled in everything you didn't know with assumptions that came from your own head.

Humans do that all the time.

We don't know what another person thinks, so we imagine it.

We don't know what's going to happen, so we create a story.

Then we forget that it was just a story and start reacting to it as if it were reality.

Fear works like that.

Jealousy works like that.

Resentment works like that.

A lot of arguments work like that.

So I'd ask a much more interesting question:

Why was that the story your mind created?

Because that story tells me very little about the person you invented.

But it may tell you quite a lot about yourself.

>>34864099
22 here I'll probably die before I'm 30. I don't like living. What does life have to offer? Why is life worth living?

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tell me about asian females?

why do successful people break the law?

how do you know when you are living within the mandate of heaven?

does the devil do everything he can?

what is the perfect amount of wealth?

how do you pray?

how do you integrate your shadow? do you have to do immoral things, or can you do so without?

does God talk to you, /adv/dad? does he have a booming voice?

what do we do on the river?

>>34864274
>how she treats others—go for all of it.
>—
>i slept with 400 women.
Larp alert, the moment I saw someone talking about having a good life on 4Chan, I knew it was fake.

>>34864139
Ask your own father first.
Then ask him why he didn't get you an arranged marriage with a virgin.

I felt like you for a long time.

For years, life felt like something that happened to me no matter how hard I tried. I was emotionally numb for a very long time.

Today my answer is simple: yes, life is worth living.

This world has sublime things in it, and at 22 you're at a good age to start deciding what this life is going to offer you.

But do it consciously, knowing that much of what your life becomes depends on what you do with it.

Some of the best things are free: love, sex, health, family, relationships, feelings, being close to people you care about.

Then there are things you build and earn: money, achievement, capability, the life you want.

Life has always given me what I gave to it.

So I stopped asking only, "What does life have to offer me?"

I started asking, "What do I have to offer?"

Life is simpler than we make it.

Give and receive.
Cause and consequence.
Action and reaction.

You act. Something happens. You learn. You adjust. You act again.

And don't confuse who you are today with who you have to be forever.

Personality means mask.

Masks can change.

Today you can live one life with one personality, one way of thinking, reacting and seeing yourself. A year from now you can be completely different.

Or you can rip the mask off.

So don't sit around forever deciding whether life is worth living.

Present.

No noise.

No voices.

Total focus.

What is in front of you?

What can you do right now?

Do it.

Then see what happens.

Then choose again.

At 22, you are beginning to decide what causes you want to create, what actions you want to take, what consequences you want to live, and what reactions you want to experience.

You still don't know how many things exist that you haven't experienced yet.

So yes, life is worth living.

But whether your life feels worth living depends a lot on what YOU DECIDE to do with it.

>>34864099
Teach him to do sports with friends. Tell him he must integrate to groups, and constantly probe to see if he's bullied, take him to MULTIPLE groups of kids, Schoolmates, soccer mates, neighbors, classes of some sort. He must integrate to all. Allow him to bring over friends. YOU must give him example by bringing over people and joke.

Also Dance. Learn to dance. Nobody will teach him, people make or break on dancing. Michael Jackson is the basics these days, most modern styles are derived from him.

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I don't think successful people break the law because they're successful.

One thing is what people should do.

Another is what people actually do.

Laws are made by human beings, and human beings break rules at every economic level.

One person steals cable.

Another uses someone else's Wi-Fi.

Another avoids paying something small.

Another moves millions.

From the outside, those look like completely different things because the scale is different.

But the principle can be exactly the same.

"I can do it."

"It benefits me."

"I probably won't get caught."

"The reward is worth the risk."

What changes is the economic scale of the person making the decision.

For one person, a small amount of money matters.

For another, a million dollars can occupy psychologically the same place.

So I wouldn't ask:

"Why do successful people break the law?"

I'd ask:

"Why do human beings break rules when they think it benefits them and they believe they can handle the consequences?"

That's the same human being.

Different money.

Different power.

Different scale.

>>34864099
Are you Andrew Tate

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A lawyer I once worked with told me something I've never forgotten:

“Assumptions are for fools, counselor. Verify.”

Both of you are doing exactly that.

One decided my life must be fake because someone with a good life wouldn't be on 4chan.

The other invented an entire story about somebody else's father, marriage and choices without knowing any of them.

Neither of you knows.

You're filling the missing information with whatever story already exists in your own head.

And then you're reacting to that story as if you discovered a fact.

That's one of the easiest mistakes humans make.

We assume.

Then we forget we assumed.

Then we become certain.

If you don't know something, there are two intelligent options:

Ask.

Or verify.

Everything else is just a story you're telling yourself.

Life isn't about chasing a ball around for everyone's entertainment. Teach your child SOMETHING ELSE

>>34864983
That's what you'd say to your son, is it?

>>34865504
Can 100% confirm I was birthed by a woman who wasn't ran through by another man who wasn't my dad. All women within my close family circle are like that. None of them have ever touched alcohol in their lives.
>arranged marriage
lad married his high school sweet heart back when some amount of women were modest. I wish Christian women were just as modest as muslim women(atleast such as those in the middle east)

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>>34864274
>>34864139
Both of these people should die

>>34865971
There's nothing for a man with retarded standards wanting to change i.e. wanting to mentally condition himself to accepting women who've had flings and exes. Incels like you deserve to be castrated & worked to death

>>34864274
>I've slept with 400 women
>I've always been extremely selective
Stopped reading there. Garbage nonsense post.

Some of you are wasting a very unusual opportunity.

I'll give you one example.

At one point I decided I wanted to become the #1 pornstar in the world.

I wasn't backed by one of the advertising agencies and traffic operations that already knew how to move attention around the internet.

So I studied them.

I figured out what they were actually doing.

They weren't necessarily winning because their content was better.

They understood traffic.

They understood where attention came from and how to redirect it.

So I learned the system.

I tested.

I measured clicks, reactions and retention.

I automated what could be automated.

I put machines to work sending real people into the funnel.

And then I beat the agencies at their own game.

I became #1.

After that, I understood how it worked and moved on.

That experience taught me something I've used ever since:

Most things that look impossible are just systems you haven't understood yet.

And systems can be studied.

So here's what I don't understand about some of you.

You have a 45-year-old stranger telling you:

Ask me anything.

If I know, I'll answer.

If I don't know, I'll tell you I don't know.

I'm giving you what I know for free because this is fun for me.

And instead of testing me with difficult questions, some of you are arguing about whether I'm real, inventing stories, or bitching and moaning like little bitches.

Ask something hard.

Challenge what I know.

Make me think.

You want women?

Money?

Attention?

Human behavior?

Failure?

Success?

Power?

Fear?

Ask.

You've got the opportunity.

Use it.

>>34864099
Teach him to value his Blood.
Teach him to honor his ancestors.
Give him a heritage in both Knowledge and Practical Skills that can be passed on to his kids in turn.
Teach him to be loyal to his folk, for all that we are, all that we possess, is defined by our people.

>>34864099
What happened to his mother

>>34864099
28 y.o. khhv neet here, was raised by a single mother. I can talk to women just fine casually or in a non-romantic way. Had some female friends over the years as well, so I guess I'm not totally repulsive lol. However, I'm struggling and really have no idea how I should escalate/flirt to signal that I'm interested romantically. I guess I never had a male figure to learn this from. Could really use some advice from you on this, OP.

>>34864099
met this girl 10 years younger than me, she was super into me but i fumbled a little and we walked our seperate ways.
should I try talk to her if I see her again or get over it

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>>34864099
To the OP and other anons here who are successful with women/anons who either have a FWB, GF or even a wife:

Should I pursue everything I've mentioned below to have a much better chance of getting with a woman who looks similar to this for the long term? (short term is okay too honestly).

I think and feel partly due to my background, culture and ethnicity,
>regardless of having an okay apartment at the moment
>also have a job and I’m a bit older than the typical college sophomore
as though I need to become at least somewhat wealthy, for example:
>Earn solid income (at the minimum, enough to be able to have and raise two kids fairly well).
>Buy a (pretty) good car.
>Buy a nice house, good designer men's clothing, nice watch.
>Be able to afford (preferably family-) vacations yearly without any difficulties, and so forth.
MOSTLY to realistically improve my chances as much as possible of attracting a woman who looks similar to pic-related beauty-wise (she doesn't need to actually be a model) for a LTR? (short term is okay too as mentioned earlier).
Don't get me wrong, she doesn't need to be perfect. It's completely fine with me:
>if she's working and/or in college too, like I am.
>even IF she has some emotional/mental health issues, takes medication, wants me to accompany her during a therapy session, or is just quirky and clingy, if I'm genuinely attracted to her and we get along, I'd still want her.

Do you guys (OP and the anons I mentioned) think I should seriously pursue everything I green-texted at the beginning (wealth, financial security, reasonable status symbols) to significantly improve my chances with women I find gorgeous, especially given my non-Western ethnic/cultural background and current finances?

>>34872510
How long will those things last Anon?
You should get with a woman who is willing to share or abide by your values, and build a heritage with you for your potential children.
There is nothing more valuable than that.
>What will you have when all the roads have deteriorated?
>What will you have when money is no longer valuable?
>What will you have when the grid collapses and society is no more?
The answer is Blood, the only tangible thing that shall remain when the rest of you has perished.

>>34864099
School is so boring, why do we even need to know this crap?

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