I'm attracted to girls with really big tits but whenever I meet one I stop being myself and act really nervous as a result of my fear of messing up How can I avoid this?
>>34866575nicotine patches (i only use them when i know its gonna be a shit day. you need a level of self-control though.)box breathing also helps pull you out of fight or flight response and back into a resting state. ideally you do it in advance. in the moment, remind yourself to breath from your diaphragm and not your neck.as stated in how to win friends and influence people, the trick to conversations is just getting a person to talk about themselves. if retard, focus on asking her questions that allow her to dominate the vocal space and make you seem highly interested in whatever chatter she has to croak out.
The people on this board are either completely insane and/or bots. This thread has been posted over and over again for weeks, maybe even months.
>>34866762I'm neither. I'm just a loser without a life.
>>34867014Hmmm, alright.
>>34866688>nicotine patcheslmao why in the fuck would someone not trying to quit smoking use a nicotine patch lol. You should puff on a pipe or cigar which is at least cool looking. If you arent inhaling then it shouldnt be that risky for addiction.
>>34867153Yeah just stink like an ashtray all the time that's really attractive for women. In Serbia.
>>34866575Holy shit I didn't even realize that was Fuko She lost a lot of weight, she looks GOOOOOOOD
>>34866762More like years.>>34866575How to "play it cool."Step 1. Don't be nervous. Stutter or show weak body language.Step 2. Don't take it seriously. Prepping a speech or anything of that nature will just make you more nervous, not less. Pretend it is a casual chat.Step 3. Gauge interest. Invite this person to a group activity with your friends, maybe ask to go get coffee with them. Something very casual.If she says no, then she doesnt like you and you saved yourself the embarrassment of being rejected. Step 4. Be quick to escalate once you have confirmed she is interested. Too many casual outings will make her think you want to be her friend and not a romantic partner.
>>34867153To get a steady nicotine buzz without smelling like shit.
>>34868649That's a bit hard for me because I tend to put them on a pedestal and I start to think of myself as inferior to them thus making myself nervous
>>34866575>jerk off before so that you aren't pursuing all that hard>exercise hard before meeting them/cardio>talk to a lot of them so that you notice they aren't all that important, basically desensitize yourself to the idea of dating
>>34866575>>34869287One thing that helps me personally is thinking they already have a boyfriend and aren't interested in me anyway, so no matter how hard I try I won't get in their pants. Something in my brain clicks and I start treating them like any other person, and it doesn't matter if I come off awkward or weird.
>>34866575Just tell them hi I'm attracted to girls with really big tits and you're one of them
>>34866688>>34868663>*most superior smokeless tobacco steps in your path*>>34867153is right though, smoking is kino and a lot of women do it as wellA sky blue American Spirit after a few cold beers...nothing like it
>>34866762I've struggled to find the answer, despite visiting threads like this over and over.>>34868649thank you anon
