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How do you not take it personally when you have people throwing extreme hatred and prejudice towards you simply because they do not understand you at all and have no interest in understanding you?
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>>34871205
idk. just tell them to fuck off and die? dont be around such people? or just live your best life
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>>34871205
How can you take their hatred personally if they don't know you? Their opinion on you is null and void, for the same reason why someone can't criticize a book he hasn't read without making himself look like an imbecile. Even when you're dealing with people who do know you, there are only two possibilities. Either they're correct, and you have no right to be offended since what they're stating is merely the truth, or they're incorrect which means they don't know what they're talking about.
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>>34871205
Have some fucking confidence in what you're doing, fuck the haters
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>>34871205
Have friends / social support networks.
When you lack that, every little hostile interaction gets to you.
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>>34871468
>>34871205
just be hostile back, double down if necessary. makes sure you wont store up any of that negativity.
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>>34871480
Isn't that playing their game? Stooping to their level? Letting them get to you?
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>>34871618
yes, generally you give the other person power over you if you react emotionally.
but unless you have a conviction made of titanium (which it appears you dont), it beats having pent up frustration and negativity.

also you can start calmly telling them to stop etc before you escalate. but defo escalate if they dont.
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>>34871205
oi india anon. welcome back. i almost deleted your pic
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>>34871205
>last time on nigger ball z
https://archive.4plebs.org/adv/thread/34790606/
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>>34871205
Vaguepost
What difference does it make taking it personally or not personally
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>>34872494
>sage my butt
it makes a difference



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