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I am a recovering neet wizard now in a stable job. My life goal has now shifted from employment to relationship. As you can guess, I do not have body count or even any social circle. I don't know where to start or even where to ask for advice.
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>>34871285
from my very limited experience your goal should be to just go out and be around people. make friends at work, join a club, or play some sport. its a lot of work and effort but thats how it is. cant catch a fish if you dont cast your rod
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>>34871285
The trend on Internet seems to be giving "go fuck yourself" as advice to every question. I can't even find anywhere without this hostility.
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>>34871285
go to bars or social gatherings of sorts and chat up strangers
or make a profile on a dating app and be straight forward
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>>34871292
I find the numbers game very hard to play. There are tons of people on street, but everyone is minding their own business. When I go anywhere remotely interesting it is always guaranteed to be a sausage fest.
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>>34871311
i completely agree with you, the only way I meet girls is if a random cashier has a crush on me.

so I suggest you get a random cashier to crush on you.
or the next time you see a girl you might like you make small talk. anywhere.
stop overthinking and act on instinct. requires you to be comfortable and get rid of your anxiety beforehand.
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>>34871311
Well your top interests seem to be anime boobs so maybe expand your interests and try new things out
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>>34871285
join local hobby groups and get social proofs (irl friends) first

>>34871318
second this



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