>be me>be 23>virgin>no degree>living in homeless shelter>never had a gf>no lifing work>asked a couple girls out at work, got rejected>have 30k saved up>be extremely sad and depressed about myself>want to travel across america but don't want to waste savings and end up same as I was but with no moneyI have no idea what to do with my life, I don't have friends, I don't have any family that I keep in contact with still, living in a homeless shelter just fucking working myself for no reason besides not having anything else to do.
>>34872165suggest me some things to do, something you guys want to do but cant because of obligations or limitations, could be anything.
>living in homeless shelterDon't believe you
>>34872165are you ever going to move out of the shelter or live in your car or something?where do you work?
>>34872172 its a pretty good shelter honestly, nearly everybody is a working person who usually stays 2-3 months before they leave. And best thing is I get to have my own room.>>34872173Idk I dont think I will be moving out to live in my car and I dont want to be paying rent, plus I live in the middle of a huge city so its in a great location, I work in a field where I get to do a lot of OT the pay aint all that but the OT makes it worth it.
>>34872173I was thinking of moving into an RV but to get one that survives winter would require me to pay a shit ton of cash I don't want to spend.
>>34872191why not just be a vanlife fag get an e250 or something? if you're homeless, it's not like you're overencumbered with shit right now. you can just get a storage unit if you hoard way cheaper than maintaining a van
>>34872198I don't want to worry about police all the time not letting me park anywhere or getting fined and also living in a van does not really help me right now since I would just be switching my room with a fridge and ac for a van with no fridge.
can somebody just give me some ideas for fun things to do to feel like a human a bit, please be things I can do without having friends or gf.
>>34872238go on the camino or appalachian trail
>>34872165Why doesn't your family give a shitJust travel for work and money purposes
>>be 23this is good>>virginthis is good>>no degreethis is bad >>living in homeless shelterthis is bad >>never had a gfthis is not a concern if you don't have a place>>no lifing workthis is good, keep at it >>asked a couple girls out at work, got rejectedthis is dangerous>>have 30k saved upthis is good, find somewhere to live>>be extremely sad and depressed about myselfthis is normal when you don't have a mate>>want to travel across america but don't want to waste savings and end up same as I was but with no moneythis is pointless, find somewhere to live first place to live -> anchored -> social life (social proof before women)-> girlfriend -> wife -> family don't worry about travelling, it's a spook
>>34872165find a hobby group that does anything you're interested in where you are; gardening, hiking, tabletop gaming, church, etc. Keep nolifing work for now, it will pay off, and you'll be glad to have the funds. Keep doing what you're doing, get into a hobby. Stay off 4chan. >>34872557dogshit advice, kys
>>34874870when you're new to groups, you can be more direct
>>34874866Thank you, I just want some guidance and reassurance. I feel so lost and it feels like everybody else just has everything covered. They have friends, hobbies, gfs.I am applying for jobs at a new city that I want to go to where the rents are lower and I can afford to have my own place and once I get a job moving there. I am doing online school so hopefully I will have more free time to study work out and ride a motorcycle, I have been eyeing on buy one for a while.>>34874870I don't really hang out much here as I used to, nowadays its mostly doomscrolling instagram which I need to get in control of, going to start reading more books instead.
>>34874870no uTravel to place of biggest bucks
>>34875132"Everyone else is similarly lost in their early 20s" don't you have a parent to be giving you this sort of advice? Asking freaks on the internet is a serious threat vector. Find a coach, professor or similar to mentor you, you need someone trustworthy. People usually have their parents if nothing else, but it doesn't seem to be an issue here (not asking why). If you don't have something like this, it'll be harder than necessary. Don't attach yourself to someone online, people who want something from you other than menial help and consistency or idiots who aren't very capable themselves.You seem to have a decent head on your shoulders. Best of luck moving cities, finishing your studies and finding work in your chosen field.
>>34875358Thank you I just posted here to get some ideas honestly, since I am just bored and I feel like I am wasting my youth by just grinding.I am too afraid of being vulnerable to people to ever get a mentor, here its anonymous so nobody can use anything against me.
