>>34872785
So should I beg to get back with my Xs for scraps?

Least I was getting laid every so often, tho in that relationship I also wanted to die at times. Is this a common issue for men? Fucking difficult decision and fuck being alone that is so shit.

>>34872796
>in that relationship I also wanted to die at times. Is this a common issue for men?
Yes, obviously

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>>34872812
Fuck.

>>34872777
Sounds like you're not ready for dating yet, you seem to be still obsessed with your ex

>>34872777
You're good looking but dating apps are rigged, you would have better luck meeting women in person via friends or at social events.

>>34872875
I got no friends and im anti social atm. I can make friends easily but no opportunity.

Twas following like the dating app scene and all my gfs are from dating apps but I duno this time Im getting no luck.

Its it more rigged against old uncs? Since relationship was 5 years im way older now and I feel like age is a big factor.

>>34872822
The typical girlfriend will constantly be annoying amd verbally abusive. She will atrack you for having too much sex with her, not enough sex with her, too much attention and not enough attention. She will attack you for being a failure in terms of career, but she will also attack you if you do have a career because then your attention is elsewhere.

>>34872923
Op still here, Its fucking awful and true.

Im mega nice and it still happens. Thank fuck Im not married to her or she had a kid.

Miserable for us all, Wish i were gay sometimes.

I believe in love tho stay strong bro im trying to also.

>>34873012
Op, well said dashin my hopes tho.

Ill be honest my X is a unicorn and besides the no sex and hitting me is pretty perfect hence the dilemma

>>34872923
I said this, but it doesn't discourage me. I can be more abusive than the girlfriend if that's needed. In a reactive way.

>>34872777
Ur body looks odd, like overly done, maybe eat more
Nobody cums 15 times I don't think ur ex has ever cum a single time in her life and is mistaking pleasurable arousal for orgasms

You could go back to your ex and just not give her any head or do anything sexually for her, and she takes that or she dumps you instead
She'll probably dump you considering she doesn't value you anyway and blocks you instead of giving a shit that you're gone

So you should probably just get someone else
But do you even want to build a family and shit, sounds like you're only looking for sex or something shallow yourself
If that's the case then go get your ex back then

>>34874377

> I don't think ur ex has ever cum a single time in her life and is mistaking pleasurable arousal for orgasms

So when a girl is saying STOP STOP STOP STOP after making a panic moan and trying to pry you off her clit aint an orgasm? Teach me then.

>You could go back to your ex and just not give her any head or do anything sexually for her, and she takes that or she dumps you instead
She'll probably dump you considering she doesn't value you anyway and blocks you instead of giving a shit that you're gone

She eventually just forces her self on me I tried this plus I enjoy doing things for people its only because its not equal that its an issue.

>But do you even want to build a family and shit, sounds like you're only looking for sex or something shallow yourself
If that's the case then go get your ex back then

We are both in perfect child range and thats one of the reasons I wana stay cas I dont wana spend 5 years making sure someone is mum quality again.

>>34874624
It could be, but 15 of them in one sitting points to lower likelihood. Could be pain from a refractory period or pain from a directly painful touch

If she's gonna force herself back to you then... Just be with her? Sounds like you both have no other options

And don't do stuff if it's too unequal in your eyes. She ain't leaving so you got room to do what you want

>>34874997
Nm I read that wrong. She's forcing herself on you sexually, well that's kinda rapey but eh

>>34875003

>but 15 of them
I think I said in OP it was not all at once, its usually 2-4 just if im counting all of them, obv no girl is nutting 15 times in one sitting.

Yeah not even kidding when we got into arguments she would try to start sex when I knew she wouldn't finish it and I was suppose to be happy for that.

As cringe as it is is I started saying rape to get her to stop and I had to say it like 10 times b4 she would stop.

>>34875007
1 should already be more than enough for 1 sitting but eh who knows it's hard to tell when there's no external indicator/semen ejaculated

You sure this is mum material? Instead of resolving and communicating whatever arguments and problems you have she resorts to sexual bribery?

>>34875016
Because she knows that I want sex ect ect it was an issue but she always offered it when I was livid at her for something and to make me chill out cas im a respectful king after I fuck a girl and cant stay mad.

It was pretty annoying, and again makes me seem like a pussy for not just being like oh yay free sex but it seemed more like something as a man I have to do if a girl asks and when it was sexual bribery its no good either.

>>34875016
Also yes 1 was usually enough for one sitting with her (but not with most girls mind you most girls are happy for more in my experience)

I just tried to do my best to get some return.

>>34872785
OP is Chad and even he's having trouble on this?

>>34875026
She's trying to control you using sex bribes, you're pussy whipped. You respect her but does she respect you back? Is she mum material? Is she even gonna stick with you? If not then best not waste any more time n energy on her, find someone who'd actually appreciate what you do for them

To be clear, OP is a 250 lbs virgin who lives in his mother's basement. His story is completely made up. This is the misogyny general.

>>34875045
I get a couple matches a week and I'm not as Chad as him. He's even in the honeymoon phase of tinder so he should be getting SOMETHING. How long you been on tinder?
Also it's all your fault sounds like from your story. Am I supposed to feel bad your gf only makes you cum once per sex time? I'm guessing you're even worse than you let on if she's trying her best to beat you as well.

>>34872777
Sorry but that's your fault. You cumming is a performance and you failed. That's why it's the money shot. You could have jacked off into her mouth at any time if she was really getting off that much.

>>34872777
you're connor Murphy?
also those photos are shit af
you're not showing anything except your looks
no lifestyle, no female attraction triggers
blurry low quality selfies all in indoor lighting

you need to go outside, and showcase yourself much better

>>34875045
Im barely chad light dont flatter me I m about 6/10, but my standards are very low atm.

>>34875049
Well yeah im living in my mums basement now cas I had to leave the house we lived at, but this story is 100% real and my experiences are real.

>>34875061
>Am I supposed to feel bad your gf only makes you cum once per sex time

Trog its like once per month. I dont cum and I say to her its ok u can get me next time, and it never comes.

She makes me feel bad for even asking the following days.

>>34875065
My cock is decent but not THAT big but she insists i fuck her exactly how she tells me to. She never learned anything that I liked.

>>34875068
Omg thats not some random shulb its actually conner MURPHY lol.

I have been using tinder for 14 years, lots of photos showcasing ur lifestyle is usless unless ur hot. I was better looking when I was younger, I look icky atm but I didnt think so gross I cant even use tinder anymore but it seems to be the case hence the question.

>>34875068
And also I have more then this on my profile I just chose the 3 where U can see my face, its all looks.

>>34875065
AND op still here id like to add to this, U know what she said to me recently?

She told me a story once about how some dude in a hotel nutted all over her face and she hated it so much.

I asked her about it recently and she said she lied about the story to seem impressive to me since I was more sexually experienced.

She has never let me do that to her and she use to farm sympathy from me from that event like omg that man sux so much, and then tries to say she lied about it to seem cool.

I still dont know if she lied about it or not. Thats how fucky she was with me.

>>34875061
Beat me as in physical abuse btw Im covered in bruises

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>>34872777
Bump cmon I didn't write all this cringe shit for nothing.

Heres some proof, I even fail to get the really fat girls and girls with 3+ kids haha.

Zero matches :3

>>34875122
>I have been using tinder for 14 years, lots of photos showcasing ur lifestyle is usless unless ur hot
no you see you misunderstood
girls don't care how you look
they care how you present yourself
that's it
any bozo can get laid
unless you're literally a psl god
your presentation has to carry you on dating apps

>>34875352
Im a be real with u then, Im not some fucking pleb who takes 1milli photos on vacation or during life events, other people have pics of me I could go get tho...

So much work for really unattractive people.

Im strongly considering going back to the X and only getting sex once a month.

>>34875302
Do you pay for that garbage? Becuase otherwise your profile gets flat out shadowbanned.
Also its like 80% guys at this point, and the attractive sluts who just want to fuck and go for a mirror selfie are long off it.
If you only met women online, no wonder all your gfs were crazy. Any non-uglky woman who "dates" online can be assumed to be so.

Seriously, put in the effort to meet people IRL, no matter how you do it. Online dating is just cope, even moreso if you want a gf.

>>34875380
Nah heeps of people date via apps here I think Im just way past my prime and ugly as fk. Im 30, Im only swiping on people 25+ also.

Worked when I was in my 20s

I guess from these replys tho I gotta gear up and embrace being an incel for the time being, Maybe try to grind heaps of cash and pull a girl that way. Thanks for all the reply lads.

>>34875122
fukin chad thinks he's not chad if thats not chad what is. ripped, squareish jaw head manly man complaining about not not getting laid but a sex quota.
i have more pics tho, so maybe posting more pics actually matters to get the algorithm showing you
my pics, as not chad, but maybe cute-chadlite
>all of them alone, i have no friends. long rocker hair, not as chiseled face as you. face much better than body, but im not fat. 6'2 is my only bio.
>1st: nonchalant face selfie against a landscape when i went outside to hike in CA once. i'd rather stay inside and scroll 4chan
>2nd: selfie in a bathroom
>3rd: terrible quality photo of playing guitar/frontman yelling a mic at what might've been a show but is really just a rehearsal practice room i paid 20/hr for
>4th: selfie out and about at night smiling having fun pretending to look at one of my friends next to me
>5th: outdoors selfie about to give my headphones. AI tells me its bad.
>6th: playing a bass i borrowed 15 years ago with a shorter different haircut because i mostly started this tinder to see if any girls i like would tell me which hair looks better to them

oh also try putting in a prompt. I had to make one in order to see photos so maybe you're blocked without it.
im goin back to bed maroon 5.

>>34875443
I will consider this, but u can call me a chad all u want in the relationship I was a borderline incel, she use to tell me storys about how her friends fucked like crazy to.

>>34872777
If you see women as objects and are okay with nonorganic material, just buy a sexdoll. Sexdolls never complain and are there only to get railed by you. I have one from funwestdoll.com and it's some good chinese silicon. It's a custom build, so it's not necessarily what prebuilt dolls they sell, but you shouldn't pay more than 4 grand at most, if you get all the fun features and stuff like that. I usually cuddle with her and fuck her until cum overflows from her holes. Give it a shot, I tell ya!

>>34875483
Uhhh.... I highly appreciate the offer but id say the sex issue is only 25% of the problem but 25% was unacceptable after 2-3 years.

I enjoy when another human enjoys me its not really about my enjoyment its more about how she neglects me and makes me feel like shit.

Interesting tho, im glad it works for u and if it did for my life would be ez lol

>>34875387
Bullshit. I'm five years older than you, skinnyfat and decidedly not fit and I'm slaying more than ever before.
That said, 30 is the cutoff at which the dating app algorithm will sort you into "appropriate" matches with 30+ women.
Also the whol online dating thing entices women into scrutinizig you from a rational perspective much more, which makes age a far larger issue than IRL. If you talk to a woman , whe most of all considers how you make her feel, and age generally doesn't come up at all until you've gotten to know each other a bit. I imagine that online a large number of women are going to see the big three oh first and ick out.

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>>34872777
was gonna call you a tryhard, but... 0_0

>>34872777
I think your images might look too intimidating, boring, and feel lazy, like you just want to fuck. You look great, but take better photos. Topless on a beach with a friend or anything where you being half-naked is incidental comes off better than "here's my half naked selfie in a bathroom, check me out"
If you've got three selfies and no bio you might be getting fucked by the app, so add more pics. Like it says, at least six varied photos, different and interesting settings, different clothes, doing something, etc. Ask a friend to take your pics, or learn to use a timer. First thing girls see are your pics, and there's a shit ton of profiles with same random bathroom selfies. Plenty of guides on youtube and insta for this as well. Pics where you are clearly having a good time are attractive. On top of that don't just stick to tinder, try bumble, hinge or whatever else, especially if you want more than just fucking. Also fill your bio with something interesting, if you absolutely have no idea what to write, tell about yourself to AI and have it condense it into something eye catching. If you spent five years with someone and didn’t date during that time, it’s normal that you’ll have to learn how to get back into dating.

>Should I run back to my X and beg for her back?
Have some self respect.

>Pretty close to cliff diving
Come on, you're going to be over her soon enough, give it time, she sounds like she was a piece of work. Look at this as an opportunity to get together with the right woman. You deserve better than that man.

>>34875582
When smart autonomous sexbits hit the market, I bet ya that women will become obsolete for sex, maybe even for birth ince birthpods are made

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>>34875627
I have it set to 26 because I look very young and im mega healthy and for this very reason (sue me)

>>34875788
Ill try this once I earn more money and Lift more weights cas ----->

>>34872777
My age range is 21 to 30 and I maxed out settings I think I got my answer to the thread hahahahahahahaha /Sage

To ugly for tinder, I was not that picky either I must have swiped on so many people left and right.

>>34876584
I was gonna say god damn if this is you how are you having issues. but yeah now I realize it isn't you.
what can I say dude, I am on apps for .. 2 years now? I had 2 dates in one period of like 2 weeks where the algo actually prioritized me, now It's dead. No one's interested for several months now, not a single match.

We live, and we die, by the algo..

I suspect the only way is, look exceptionally good, and pay for the app.

>>34876611
Tru that brother, Im sure I can make something work IRL.

Btw I know how that gold BS works and I tried to find who liked me, never showed me the profile.

Was as much of a science experiment as a real attempt.

I used tinder when I was 16 when it was called match and it really was better.

Gl to u king

>>34876679
good luck to you too brother, you got this. keep working to achieve a good body, it makes a huge difference. The only time I got female attention and a gf was when my BMI was normal.
that has to be a clue, I'm trying to take it as one
keep on keeping on dude, I'm also sex starved af, and would love touch and love too. like, you know that feeling when you're so ready, and you feel like It's so close, you're almost delusional enough to wake up in the morning and think ahhh what a beautiful day TODAY I will get a girl, and you really believe it, but it ain't true. ughh... hate being a man in 2026 man.

>>34872777
>She also physically beat me but she never hurt me
Oh my god get a grip you fucking pussy. You sound insufferable. Don't date you fucking retard, get your shit together

You probably death gripped your shit and thought that was normal. Lock your dick up. And you're kinda ugly and balding.

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>>34876803
Real question, As a man do I just need to accept this from women? This does not hurt bad but its not a nice reminder, these are BITE Marks.

Am I really insufferable for complaining? Real question.

>>34876810
LOL ty for being honest, I know im balding I think thats a big contributor

ANYWAY sage thread please Im already out of swipes I know its my fault.

>>34872777
Not even gonna read your reddit spacing paragraph. You're 6'3 with a great frame and physique stop being a fucking pussy

>>34877838
Moron see

>>34875302
and
>>34876584

Btw can someone answer this for real before this thread dies?

Men been giving me shit else where saying I should enjoy getting bitten is that really the case and what most men think and im a pussy?

See

>>34877017
Thats not even 1/4 of the marks on my body from one night

>>34877017
>Real question, As a man do I just need to accept this from women?
Real answer, No.

You can't help what your kink is, and different people have different fetishes. It can take time to find someone with whom you are compatible. The key is that you negotiate and communicate with your partner about what you each like and don't like. Some things are worth compromising to make each other happy. Some things are hard boundaries that you need to enforce.

But if you tell your partner it hurts you and she keeps doing it, she is an abuser. Get rid of her while you still can because she 100% will escalate to things that are much, *much* worse.

>>34877966
-_- Even now U reply to this like it was sexual.

THIS WAS NOT SEXUAL she did this cas I tried to cuddle her at night, she would also use her fists but the biting was ment to harm no where near anything sexual.

No kid ever bit me in school but id say its closer to a child biting me.

>>34872777
I duno what the deal is but suddenly after making this threat im getting matches zzz Cute ones to. So extra sage.

>>34872777
You are insecure

Seek help

>>34877994
glad it all worked out chad. now maybe fix whatever you're doing that's causing them to attack their rapist in their mind.