>>34873867
look above average
earn above average
pick at least one

otherwise its the numbers game for you same as any other guy

>>34873875
i earn 4x average and never get a swipe back

>>34874034
are you mentioning on your profile that you earn 4x average

>>34874034
do you post pics traveling to exotic party islands on your yacht? No? then you're not rich enough to use that as a primary factor for these girls who easily make that money themselves now, or latch on to another big chad that does every weekend.

so you'll just have to be hot.

>>34874034
if you have a faggy profession like software engineer you'll never get a date with a tinder whore. Maybe if you're a BJJ expert with a 8/10 face you'll be okay as a "techie"

Buy a ticket to a speed dating event and get some numbers from the women there. You'll be able to find an interesting chungus who will settle for you.

never use dating apps. it's just a big scam to steal money from normal guys. you'd be better off at a bar or a community college class, honestly.

>>34873867
Any women here, Why do you find so little men attractive

>>34874254
The only men I think are attractive are males that look like my husbando. Why are you against monogamy?

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>34874512
What is a redditor doing on our website

>>34874254
women actually don't like the physical part of a man
they instead are attracted to the signals the physical of him displays
even a man with incredible bone structure who only display his face in a blurry picture with an ugly background will not get swiped on

men don't really understand this concept.
so they just put pictures of how they look like
insteaad of signaling:
taste, photo composition, exclusive lifestyle, fashion sense, cleanliness
95% of men have pictures of:
dude with bros, dude in his house, dude in backyard
signal nothing and become noise

so in summary: a man is not attractive, what is attractive is the display of the man. how he displays himself and how other's treat him

>>34874537
they/them came here from the "get if off your le hecking chest" general! :)

>>34873867
There isn't really boobs and curved body equivalent a guy can put in a photo
Maybe just ai edit your face or something

>>34874542
so if I lighting fraud my face and give a sly smile while wearing a nice shirt where does that put me

>>34874576
still just a picture of your face man
if you do that and then look like you are in an exclusive social setting (a resort, a luxury restaurant, etc)
then you're better

>>34874254
Large penis. Anything else is a bonus.

>>34874597
i am never in any exclusive social settings tho and i have no interest in signaling how le rich and sophisticated i am through my photos

>>34874601
>i have no interest in signaling how le rich and sophisticated i am through my photos
The women are though. So when you say this really you are saying you aren't interested in women. Like do you wanna succeed or not here?

>>34874614
im not interested in gold diggers dude.
or in pretending. whats the point? i dont wanna fraud my way into a relationship only to then be miserable because she/we find out that i have been acting/masking the entire time.
either you like my face and we can have a fun convo or not.

>>34874635
It's about the pictures, you don't need to lie about anything. Your very pedantic and nit picky, that's probably a good part of why you are unsuccessful.

>>34874659
putting up a picture of myself in a luxury restaruant would be lying. because it would suggest I visit those. which I dont, or it would have been a one time occasion.

>>34874673
You have no idea how women think. You are thinking like a man, logically. Women will see it and think it looks nice. That's it.

>>34874688
thanks for the advice, ill make sure to take my next picture on the scrapyard to make it interesting.

>>34874673
>a one time occasion
Wtf is lying about showing that you're not allergic to being in nice places

>>34874694
as a broke loser i am in fact allergic to it

>>34874692
Yeah don't be such a smartass. You're being far too autistic about this and overthinking it. I think you are hopeless when you cannot get something so basic right.

>>34874700
Good news. Anyone youll find isn't after your money.

>>34874705
>you are hopeless
you are goddamn right I am but girls want me and I want them. it just doesnt happen. the rejection fear is too damn high.

>>34874745
My only advice for you is to practice semen retention. People will tell you that it's a placebo but they have never tried. Try it for just a week maybe two, it can help with overthinking.

>>34874755
thats very kind of you but ill prob keep fapping.
im just chitchatting here, keeps the devils at bay.

>>34874772
There's really nothing to lose by trying. If you feel it's not worth while that first nut after a week will feel amazing.

>>34873867
Just be tall

>>34874152
I am a software engineer and I have no problem getting dates with tinder whores.

>>34874599
just get a dildo then