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I feel so conflicted about my sexuality, part of me wants to date a man and part of me wants to date a woman. I genuinely find men more interesting than women, like whenever I see a person who I find genuinely interesting and who it's fun to find out more about it's a man 9 out of 10 times. I do prefer women's bodies, and I do find a higher percentage of women attractive, but I don't know. Women can also give you babies, you can have a nice normal life with a woman, you can't really do that with a man. Also might I add that my parents don't like gays, and that dating a man would at the minimum make them really sad.

I don't know, what do I do?
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>>34874269
cut off your family if they stand in the way of your happyness
and just be yourself?
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>>34874277
I can't, I live with them and have no money.
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>>34874269
It's not worth worrying about until you're already on the cusp of entering a relationship with somebody you've met. Additionally, relationships in general aren't necessary for a good life. The more you fixate on them as if they're the key to happiness, the less happy you'll be. Just learn how to enjoy your own company, and if you meet somebody who you want to be with, and if they want to be with you, then you'll figure out how to make it work.
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>>34874329
thats not a nice situation to be in. surrounded by people who dont fully support you for you. just seperate your private love life from your family and live your best life regardless.
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>>34874338
I'm 26 and I've never been in a relationship, I feel like I need to do something.
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>>34874269
>part of me wants to date a man and part of me wants to date a woman.
Friend of mine would have a GF for one year, then a BF for a year, then a GF for a year, the a BF for a year. This went on until he turned 35 or so, when he finally settled on a guy. They've been together for a while now.
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>>34874374
I mean if I do get a boyfriend I could just say he's a friend, but I'm not sure how many people would go along with that.
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>>34874472
either way the answer isnt to cope but to just follow your desires.
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>>34874269
Have male friends, date a female for reproductive purposes. Why do you have to make everything about penises?
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>>34874706
>Why do you have to make everything about penises?

I don't know, they're just nice. It's not my fault God gave men the more aesthetic genitals.
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>>34874790
That can be true without making everything about it
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>>34874913
I don't, I'm just asking for advice about this. I'm not doing the Hadrian thing, if I have a wife I'm going to be committed to her.
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>>34874472
>just say he's a friend
People who love you will accept the lie, because they want to love you. People who refuse to accept this lie don't actually love you.
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>>34875058
Have you experienced this or seen this type of thing play out?
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you are deluded and twisted by pornography
stop touching your willy for at least a month and see if you are still obsessed with the male sexual organ
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>>34875175
I don't think I've gone a month without whacking it since I was 15. After like 3 days I'm back to being able to jerk it to my imagination.



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