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What is your experience of love, being in love, and loving someone like? How do you define it?
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>>34874415
Good feels but always suspect it's fake, in the end turns out to be fake
Not worth putting much weight on
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>>34874415
It's like when someone in the park has a bubble wand and they swirl it around and make a HUGE bubble and they get really excited for a moment and then it pops.
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constant fucking pain and agony
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A never ending disappointment.
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>>34874415
Its pretty nice bit heartbreaks suck ofcourse ignore the cope posters
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>>34874415
majority of people only love themselves
many then redefine that love, convincing their self, their 'love' is empathy
disney's a farm that sells people a lie in order to keep the nepo baby ranch fertile
you can find someone to live with, find comfort, sex, money, land, just like any other traditional benefit of marriage, but don't fall for the love trap. people have a life to live and you're not in the blueprints unless you have the gibs above to give.
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>>34874415
>How do you define it?
I can't. But I can give you clues : Thinking about the person. Wanting to be with the person. Wanting to do things with the person. Hoping the person is doing OK. Asking who the person is doing. Being upset when the person isn't doing OK. Wanting to have the power to not react excessively to the annoying thing the person does. (yes, I've been married for nearly 20 years, how did you know?)

Wanting to learn who the person is. Wanting to learn what the person likes. Wanting to learn what the person has done. Wanting to do sexy things to the person. Wanting to do something the person will enjoy.

I could go on and on like that. It's not one thing, it's a big pile of little things, where you stop seeing the life as just yourself, but as you and them as a team.

Also, I could change many of those "wanting" for "yearning" if I was romantic.
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Men just aren't romantic anymore and will try to gaslight you into retarded plans for shits and giggles.
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>>34877556
Because you want men who are a super fun guy or a guy you can smoke weed with or a guy who can fix up her house or even a guy who can play frisbee with you on the beach after going to the gym or the most stable guy in the room Blue.
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