so college started again and in my algorithms class i noticed there was a white girl and since there's never any in my major i went to talk to her and she seemed to enjoy it and smiled and complimented what i wore that day. then when class was starting she said>uh I'm president of women stem society so I'm giving the opening talk this week you should go>you don't have to be a woman to go we try to get any kind of membersso i went, no one said hi to me, no one invited me to their table to do the group activity, i listened to her boring talk, everyone left>well thanks for coming and supporting me anon >have to go now, bye i honestly did all the shit people on here say to get a gf, i dressed okay, i talked to a girl i didn't know, and i went to a club activity and it didn't fucking workcan someone PLEASE tell me how to tell when women are actually trying to do fun stuff with you so you can fuck instead of boring you and trying to waste your time with the dumbest bullshit and invite you places just to humiliate you where no one will want to be your friend because you're the only male that showed up to be in the roomI'm so fucking sick of my life i just want to have a good 30 day streak where i don't have to be embarrassed or humiliated once and it's fucking impossible
>>34874726>I'm so fucking sick of my life i just want to have a good 30 day streak You will never have it. Saying that is the symptom of already being deeply cursed by autism.Ask yourself what's your goal here. Get sex only? Get a partner? If you want sex, you should just ask out that women society girl and be pushy. Of course that's too much mental overload for you. That leaves you with the second, Tap into your interests and put time in activities where there's people.Stop wanting THAT one girl. Stop wanting THE BEST girl. Get fucking any girl at all and learn to have a good time with her. If you don't do this you become a bitter piece of shit and you will never get a single person at your side.
>>34874756I'm not narcissistic >>34874774I'm not just trying to get one girl, I've only just met this girl 5 days ago and she already wasted my time and gave me no signals i should ask her out. that's why I'm asking how to tell when they're asking you to do something when you meet them because they actually like you vs just trying to make fun of you like this
>>34874726Blah blah ask her, get rejected, move onto the next
>>34874800nd stands for neurodivergence
>>34874726In her eyes you're just being friendly. I totally understand this mindset of "I DID THIS, shouldn't she be liking me now??" And I wish life was that easy but that's autistic thinking and you're not wrong to assume this but it's not true and not how it works at all.To get with a woman, you must place yourself in a romantic context. Ask a woman you know out on a date. I know it sounds scary and like unreal but yeah, that's one way to do it. Essentially, look at it like this:Input: friendlyOutput: friendlyInput: romanticOutput: romantic, or rejectionSo, by being explicit, you've at least saved yourself time. If you're not a mong, and your life is functional, then you should see yourself as capable enough to be loved, and then when you ask a woman on a date, you won't feel like you're bothering her with a hell sentence. And if she rejects you then it's alright. Just make sure you ask a girl that you trust won't do you dirty and talk shit behind your back. Ask a good girl out. One that you know.
>>34874812>Ask a good girl out. One that you know.this board CONSTANTLY contradicts itself on thisif i say i asked out a good girl i knew before>waited too long>they know in 5 minutes if you're gonna fuck>need to ask before you get friend zonethen if i say, i just met this girl, and i tried to immediately start to hang out with her, you say i need to do more vetting
>>34874850Have you considered that we're not a "board" but individual people giving you responses?You really are autistic, okay -IN MY PERSONAL EXPERIENCE AS A HUMAN ON THIS PLANET - When you ask a girl out from your own environment (such as your school, or work place) it is better to know her first, but not for too long, just enough that you're not a total stranger, before you ask her, because that mitigates riskBUT, when you don't know a girl and have nothing to lose, sure ask her. Like a girl you meet at a one time meetup. But in EITHER CASE - use the word date.
>>34874800I'm the same as you dude, the thing is, you're desperate for ANY girl. To get a girl on the spot, you'd have to be full of joy, life and energy to pull her in on the spot. But you don't have that because you're autistic like me, so either she gets to know you in the long run (One month, no more) or the same with other girls. The world is so fucking shit you can't summon joy out of nowhere so that's yet another pilgrimage way you have to take steps into.I said one month because, You HAVE to make it clear you're interested in her, that's the one thing you can't be ashamed of, and if you wait more than one month, she will see you as gay or meek.Don't lose patience over the last 5 days. Just don't fucking get ensnared in negativity. Actively seek staying hopeful and enthusiatic, it's the only way.
>>34874877>seek staying hopeful and enthusiatic
