How do I get people to stop thinking I’m some loser for living at home @28
Move out.
>>34875231if it bothers you so much it must be trueit definitely depends on your circumstances tho. do you get your own floor or half of the house, do you do your own laundry etc...
I just moved back into parents at 36, it's a nice break from life kicking the shitout of me. As long as you have a plan and are saving or investing money.
>>34875231>How do I get people to stop thinking I’m some loser for living at home @28stop living at home at 28
>>34875265Based
>>34875231Get a job and move out.
>>34875430I’m not letting them win. No
>>34875457OK then people will keep thinking you're some loser/thread
take charge of your fucking life
>>34875231>A) lie to them. it's not like they're gonna come to visit you.>B) embrace the reputation. call yourself a loser.people will move on much faster than they would if you took offence to it and larped like a lawyer defending yourself.trying to change their perception of social law equated with loserdom is a fools errand if you do that>C) status quo. defend yourself. confirm all doubt of what you areyou're already a loser, so might as well find a way to win as one.
>>34875231I moved back in when i was like 28. I crashed out at my job and fell of the wagon and went on a bit of a bender. Ended up quitting and moving back in cause i couldnt pay rent anymore. Im 30 now and i finally managed to get my bachelors degree in business, and ive been kind of half ass looking for a job since I graduated in December. Basically, i know how you feel OP. I dont even really like going out in public anymore because i feel like such a worthless loser. I dont even look at women in public now because i know how they will see me when it is revealed at some point i live with my parents at 30 and dont have a job. What's even worse is they're saying job losses are bad and getting worse, that entry level jobs are going the way of the dinosaur. So OP, you can basically either just lie to people which is bad, or you can do what im doing and try to get a job so you can find an apartment somewhere. Because you can't ever truly know what someone thinks about you and you cant really control how they perceive you.
>>34875231Live elsewhere.
>>34875231You can't control how others think and feel. Why do you care?
>>34877305he's trying to convince himself he's not a loserhe's long since fled the thread, since the consensus is clear
>>34877305well normally thats true but its just how they say it openly and continue to judge, when they dont even know the storyi also have tripfags filtered so sorry if they are giving advice or whatever
>>34877322Can you choose to not be in their presence? Do they live with you? Is it happening at your workplace?
>>34877336You’re gonna laugh but it’s my roommateFwiw; he does let me live here rent free (he owes me) but constantly rubs it in about being a landlord , I’m a leech etc because he’s younger and thinks he’s top G
>>34877322>filtered tripfagsBased
fuck them, i live at home im 31, im never moving out, infact i cant imagine a life without my parents, i do things for them and they provide shelter for me, eventually when they are really old me and my wife will care for them and then inherit the housei cant imagine a life doing something else, and dont know how other people do itimagine paying rent to live in a shitty house thats not yours and can be told to leave whenever or price hikes etc, literally pissing away money
