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She's very naive and I'm kind of scared what's going to happen to her there
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>>34894091
She gone get dicked.
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>>34894091
She'll be a kid in a candy store.
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i'm going to the same college as your sister and i'm gonna fuck her real good
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>>34894091
Which college? I’ll look out for her.
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>>34894091
preemptively just hide her social media connections to you right now. a lot is gonna happen, and if you don't block it out not, you're gonna see more of it each week
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>>34894091
She will take miles of BBC, nasty little fucking whore, I bet she was craving for nog dick all her life.
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>>34894091
You already what is going to happen anon... First, are you sure she is a no sexual driven person? Or at least a mentally sane person? If she is not there is nothing you can do, she is going to break free from all the assholes didn't accept her Sexpersona before and fuck everybody that speak sweet to her.
If she is more than just a chunk of meat you could teach about social interaction, no pill or doomer shit, just talking about experience in abstract level; what kind of people ask you to do certain things, what things you actually want to do, how it feels to be a degenerate and stuff.
These are the words i wish i could hear back then...
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>>34895426
No! She's my little sister. Fuck you bro. She's literally just a kid.
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>>34895433
You should marry her then
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>>34895449
What the hell! Where do you get off making remarks like that!? What is wrong with you?
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>>34895433
Fuck OP, you should have said that!
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>>34895480
Fuck me? No, fuck you!
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>>34895433
no, she's a woman. If your family is secular there's basically nothing you can do. Just try talking to her and redpill her. If it works it works
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>>34895475
Ok, you shouldn't marry her but a gay man should. So she can remaim pure.
If you really care about this, you could tell her something about being somewhat careful around guys. As you know, we men are rapey.
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>>34895485
>>34895486
Look I know this sounds dumb considering she's 18 and a pretty smart cookie but. I'm not even sure she knows about sex yet.
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>>34895483
Just try to teach her about life, you could help her to find what skill enjoys, explain her about society, share her with her knowledge about psychology, idk maybe just being present in her life
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>>34895493
Do you live in a rainforest tribe? Obviously not.
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>>34895493
Well she going to learn about it in collage. Face it OP she will get fucked over, the only thing you can do is give her some advice and hope for the best.
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>>34895493
She is 18 and you don't care if she has sexual education, i will say it again, fuck you OP. If she doesn't know nothing about sex she is just to flow with the current to moral degeneration. I don't mean you must have sex with her (fuck you anon), you just need to stop being a faggot and just confirm she is no stupid like nana
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>>34895497
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>>34895511
She's an 18 year old child. Like she's so innocent. I don't want to imagine what could happen. I want to have a talk with her but I don't want to teach her about like, sex etc. Cause I'm not sure she does know.
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>>34895522
You don't have to tell her directly about sex. Just tell her to be careful in a situation where there's drinking and partying.
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>>34895536
No I absolutely forbid her to drink beer or go to parties. It's out of the question for me to entertain that shit for a second. I'm not feeding her bad ideas.
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>>34895522
If you don't teach her some asshole will, maybe he will put something in her drink, maybe she will get drunk, maybe the asshole will whisper her sweet nothings and sugar plumps in the ear in order to fuck her. Don't think that only guys will try to use her, there are tons of woman who will use people for self validation, some of them will make other people miserable so they won't be alone. OP I understand that you see her as a kid, but is legally an adult she will make some dumb decisions and you need to teach her how to make the least dumb decisions.
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>>34895546
She will not be attending any parties. I am going to tell her she's forbidden. It's other shit where I'm worried about some dude becoming her "boyfriend". Like some 21 year old pedo going after my lil sis.
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>>34895547
Ok this is a larp thread. Good one.
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Ignore all the assholes in this thread.
You cannot stop her from being who she is. I have a sister too and when she went away to uni I was shit worried about her coming some fucking bluehaired hairypit weirdo. But we were close and she told me about how she was shocked her dorm floormates were all trying to lose their virginities. Actively going to parties for that. My sister is some special kind of idk and she's never liked alcohol even in hs. She ended up making friends with other relatively normal women in a club she lead, volunteered and stayed away from all that. But I can see it being something some weak retard can fall into because all the other cool girls are doing it.

I just hope you are close with her and can streer her in the right direction. For all I was worried, I realized I didn't have much influence and that she is who she is and I like who she is. If she'd been like my little brother, a pothead fuck who doesnt listen I doubt I'd have any influence on her.

I'm sure she'll be fine, but yours sounds more retarded than mine so I think you need to talk to her more to make sure you steer her in the right direction. I on the other hand, have to encourage mine to consider people as human beings.
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>>34895550
I hope so, if not God help us with morons like OP.
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I take back trying to help you seeing this. >>34895547

I hope she joins all the other retards trying to lose their virginities during orientiation.
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>>34895550
>>34895554
>>34895557
Wtf. I'm here opening myself up to you people. Something that i never do. And your just shitting on everything I do. I'd go down there to protect her but I start at my new job on Monday. My head is in pieces right now, I need advice you fuckers.
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>>34895522
I'm a man of the same age as your sister, the worst thing you can do is stay quiet. I learned about sex at 6 with encyclopedias then tried to find it in my father's phone, i fapped from 10 to 13 because nobody will ever dare to explain you why it is actually bad. I had to recognize what kind of people is "normal" (psychos, pervs, assholes) and what kind of people is normal, i had to do a great job to not be a junkie in the slums which could be a lot easier if people explains things instead of throwing you bibles.
>>i dont know if she knows about sex
Just buy her a book i.e love language (chapman), als-ob (vaihinger), enten eller (kierkegaard) if you are cristian. Even fulgrim is a good example and it is pretty much more fun than the other three
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>>34895552
Thanks man. I'm not actually that close, I feel like I need to make up for that by being there now.
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>>34895567
It's just too awkward for me to bring it up. If she does know I'll look like a dumbass and if she doesn't know. Well that's even worse.
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>>34895569
If she doesn't come to you naturally, make sure you text her at least once a week, preferably on Fridays to ask how her week went and what she plans on doing that weekend.
You sound extreme so I would NOT tell her she's forbidden to do shit. Take it easy and be less fatherly, you are her brother. Have her trust you so she can come to you and talk about the insane shit she is about to go through. Otherwise she finds trust in some fat chick that will give her weed for her anxiety and you will never get her back.

You don't have to talk straight about sex, she knows if she went to a public school or has social media. You don't have to teach her about the birdsandthebees. What you need to make sure you tell her is what other anons have tried to tell you: warn her about parties and getting roofied, the dangers of a single cup of jungle juice. That men in uni rn are not her friends despite what they say. That she should focus on her studies.

Again, don't be intense, dont tell her you forbid shit or she cant come back home or some shit because she could crack and do the opposite and go wild on the cc. due to you suffocating her. Give her space, talk to her constantly.
Also, my sister would send me pics of what she was doing. Since you dont do that now, start now by texting her pics of where youre at and what youre doing, that way you can ask her, "let me see, what about you?" on a sat night and its not too obvious.
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>>34895593
Thanks anon. I sometimes text her fish I caught.
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>>34895522
Just say something that boils down to
>I know how men think. You can't buy sex with commitment, no matter how much a guy pressures you to think otherwise. If a guy is serious about you, he will wait for that commitment, but you'll only insult him if you don't apply the same standard to all men.

Ideally, commitment means marriage, and this has nothing to do with religion.
It's easy to avoid the coombrains who try to smash on a first date. It's harder to avoid the guys who sincerely believe they're "committed" by aimlessly wasting years of their gf's life living together and having sex, only to decide they're bored or don't want to settle and leave anyway. Marriage is the best protection against those types, because it is a conscious choice and enforceable commitment. Even if guys sleepwalk into it (unlikely but possible), she has more protections if they pull stupid shit.
Having a kid out of wedlock might seem like a commitment, but for obvious reasons, it's not recommended. And those types of relationships are FAR more likely to crumble.


Bottom line, though: you can't control what she does. Insisting that [insert action] is "forbidden" is ineffective at best, and will more likely than not lead to her actively ignoring whatever you say or being convinced by some scumbag with ulterior motives that it's "liberating" to be used, because hey, at least she's not under the thumb of her crazy family.
You can only give her guidance. What she does with it is out of your hands, so focus on being as effective as you can.
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>>34895486
>marry a faggot to remain pure
Fags are the ones always pushing degeneracy.
Kys, faggot.
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>>34895522
>18
>child
Infantilizing foids their whole lives is part of why they're all so fucking evil and retarded.
Just Kys, moron.
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>>34895540
>I forbid a grown ass woman from doing grown ass woman things.
Nice larp, faggot.

The rest of you motherfuckers are idiots for taking the bait. This whole thread is bullshit.
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>>34895547
I'm gonna fuck your sister, bruh.
Give me her number.
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>>34895563
>opening up here
Open that asshole wide, bitch.
They're gonna cum for ya.
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>>34895595
When did you start molesting her, fishfucker?
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>>34895980
>>34895987
>>34895993
>>34896002
>>34896007
You know what fuck all of you. Like actually go fuck yourself. My whole weekend is fucked because of this. Do you think this is funny? I'm trying to protect her, protect her from fucking losers like yourselves. You fuckin greasebag fucks don't give a fuck about women and girls.
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>>34896508
We trust you anon, find the way to freedom and free her of any future guilt!
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>>34896610
You aren't dummy dude. I've started drinking 2nite qnd I shouldn't bu this shit got me ficked up. Go fuck yourself dumbass.
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She'll be riding the cock carousel every day and that will eventually ruin her future.
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>>34896508
Ignore them.
Tell her she can call you no matter what and show up when she does
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You know what you have to do.
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What is this dogshit thread? Every single OP reply reads like bait.
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>>34897137
Your dogshit. How about that, yeah. Not good, didn't fuckin think so.
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>>34896508
>won't someone please think of the women and girlerinos
This would be funny if it was serious
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>>34897278
I am 100% seriously you dumbfuckstain
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>>34896508
Op, you're sister isn't pure or as innocent as you'd like to believe. Or perhaps she is a bit. If she only cares about her education she wont engage in degenerate debauchery.
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>>34897322
She's 18 she's just a kid. I don't want her vaping or drinking a beer.
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>>34894091
ITT: OP wants to fuck his sister and is feeling pre-emptively cucked.
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>>34897327
No I fucking don't. I just understand that she is too young, too young to drink or have a boyfriend. I've got to make sure it doesn't happen.
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>>34894091
Hey OP. Watch this music video:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6OZaPYsrKSc
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>>34898023
My sis ain't like that, shitbird. Up yours you fuckin douche.
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>>34894091
She's gonna get fucked 9 ways from Sunday. But that's a good thing. If you genuinely love your sister you'd want her to excel socially. The last thing you want is for her to end up some bitter, jaded, seething, sack of faggot shit like most of the people browsing this site. Obviously you don't want your sister to end up some OF whore that gets her throat and asshole BRUTALLY BLOWN OUT for a living but I think you and your sister will be fine. Besides OF demons, I was told that zoomers are terrified of sex and relationships and having children.
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>>34894091
I'm going to impregnate your whore sister.
So are all my jeet buddies.
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>>34895493
>she's 18 and pretty smart
>but I'm not even sure she knows about sex yet.
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>>34895522
>I don't want to teach her about like, sex etc.
Let's say you did, what would you teach her?
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>>34900090
18 is still a child you dim minded idiot!
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>>34899413
Not funny.
>>34900093
Your a sex crazed freak. Like wtf this is just incel bullshit.
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>>34895593
>text her at least once a week, preferably on Fridays to ask how her week went and what she plans on doing that weekend.
That's one way to get her to hate you
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Guys today is the day she is going. I know you guys have been messing with me but. I really need serious advice today. Please, someone just help.
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College is your one time to live a town full of 18-21 years olds, and all the legendary sexual adventures college is known for

First, make sure she makes them use a condom . Condoms are 98% effective at preventing pregnancy and very effective at stopping sexually transmitted infections (STIs) when used correctly

Typical use: about 13 to 18 out of 100 people get pregnant in a year due to human error, slips, or breaks)

To cut down on human error, slips, breaks, look into good study reusable condoms
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>>34900131
>First, make sure she makes them use a condom
Nope. Wrong answer. She won't be having sex so this is IRRELEVANT.
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>>34900096
>incel
No such thing, foid.
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>>34900131
Those look like funky bike handles. kek
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>>34900182
Yeah you couldn't get pussy no matter what you exist and you fuckin suck. Dumb fuckin asshole wtf is this shit?
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>>34894202
like a kid on a Epstein island
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>>34900148
>She won't be having sex so this is IRRELEVANT.
How old does she have to be before she gets your seal of approval to have sex?

Ages 13 to 15: A portion of teenagers begin having sex during these years,

The average age for a girl's first sexual intercourse is about 17 to 17.8 years old in Western countries like the United States and France

Age 20: More than 80% of young adults report having had sexual intercourse.
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>>34900399
Probably until she's older definitely not her teens that's mess up dude. Teens should never have sex
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>>34900399
my gf didnt have sex until she was with me (in her early 30s)
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>>34900446
Keep telling yourself that
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>>34900472
i believe her. im only 5 inches and she says its way too big whenever i go in her
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>>34900096
I'm not trying to be funny retard, I'm being dead fucking serious. Your sister isn't some saint, retard. She'll end up having sex and going to parties and probably even getting a boyfriend, it's what women do at college. All you can do is hope and pray she doesn't have some hidden whore gene that is unlocked while she's at college because I've heard so many stories of chicks being normal and conservative and good girls...they go away to college and they just suck and fuck their life away. There is some solace in the fact that not EVERY woman is like that, so maybe your sister is one of the good ones, or maybe she isn't the thing is you won't ever know one way or the other. You know what she's willing to let you know.
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I had a little sister once
Then she went to college

Now she's some kind of mentally ill lesbian with a shaved head idk
I dont speak to her anymore
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>>34895433
>>34897326
>She's literally just a kid.
18 is a fully grown adult woman
>>34895493
>>34895522
you are coping because you don't want it to be true
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So sorry that you will no longer be able to watch her through a hole in a shower while beating off.
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>>34894091
>have nice girl who was on/off crush from 4th grade through high school
>incredible sweet and soft and kind
>we never dated. Early on due to my autism, later on because we were always dating other people on kind of an opposite rotation
>start getting serious with other girl last year of high school, still friends with early crush but got less close
>early crush girl goes off to college because she was smart and talented
>end up studying in another country pretty early on. Was studying foreign language
>posts shitloads of pictures with her and lots of guys the entire trip
>”good for her but uhhh also kinda weird for who she is”
>she comes back to the states to finish studying
>apparently gets very violently and traumatizingly raped. I would have obviously never known about this but she made a very long and graphic post about it back during #metoo
>finishes her education and gets a really good job
>(truly good for her. I want her to succeed and not suffer at the very least)
>we are still friends on social media, like each other’s interesting pictures sometimes
>she still looks cute in selfies and I can see her old self in there despite the years that have gone by
>but now she has eyes that know darkness and pain and that’s genuinely heartbreaking
I just wanted to tell the story and get it off my chest. Was on my mind this morning.



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