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>no gf ever at the age of 37
>never even flirted with a girl
>went to college and multiple holidays abroad and had many jobs and never had female attention
>lifted weights for over 10 years, below 25 BMI
>finally make Tinder, Hinge, and Bumble accounts
>buy paid versions
>swipe
>wait
>wait more
>zero matches

So every single woman I have ever come in to contact with considers me a subhuman. Every single one.

All those years of wondering what could have been, walking through college libraries stuffed with women, working at a clothes store filled with young women as a student during summer, all of those different offices I worked in, all those women in sunny cities abroad like Paris, Barcelona, Los Angeles. All of the yearning, all of the wondering what would've happened if I talked to any women. It was all pointless and hopeless.

What now?
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>>34894909
>What now?
You should have given up on finding a girlfriend about seven years ago. It will certainly never happen now. If you want sex, hire an escort. And look for other ways to make your life fulfilling.
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>>34894909
Straight up go to any woman you feel anything about and say "Whoah, nice tits, may I touch them?"

Just fucking fool around dude.
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>>34894946
>just be a fucking clown
funny, but tragic
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>>34894909
The moment I stopped caring about finding a girlfriend is when one just fell into my lap. Honestly just live your life for yourself man. If it happens it happens and if it doesn't it doesn't. I miss my ex but my life is in shambles and I know she probably wouldn't want anything to do with me, that's if she's not dating anyone, which knowing her, she probably is since she sorta got her shit together now, but hey it is what it is.
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>So every single woman I have ever come in to contact with considers me a subhuman. Every single one.
You're letting women determine your value
>lifted weights for over 10 years, below 25 BMI
Gay
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as a girl, I think you trying to appeal is attractive! In my opinion, maybe you should worry about yourself and what you aspire to be, not what other women think. this goes for anything! you only live once and you should live it out to the best of your ability!
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>>34899607
>as a girl
YWNBAW
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>>34899438
No, I'll never stop using it. I will always pay my respects to Him.
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>>34899607
Hi! I'm so encouraging! I think that typing with an exclamation mark at the end makes me seem so friendly and womanly! :>

shuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuut the fuck up you will NEVER, EVER, EEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEVER BE A WOMAN

YOU WILL ALWAYS BE A POOR
LONELY
ADAM'S APPLE THE SIZE OF AN ACTUAL APPLE
MAN SMELLING
HAIRY
BAAALLSACK
MANNNNNNNNNNNN

YOU'RE A MAN
AND YOU WILL NEVER NOT BE A MAN!!!!
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>>34894909
every single time someone posts shit like this it should be mandatory to attach your pic, face and body visible
because you're either lying or there's something very wrong with how you present yourself
every time it's some combination of looking like an anti-social serial killer or sounding like one in your bio
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>>34900030
I'm guessing this isn't the OP
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>>34894909
>all of the wondering what would've happened if I talked to any women.
Oh gee OP, maybe instead of all those years of wondering what would happen if you talked to a woman, if you had actually DONE it instead.
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>>34894909
I highly doubt fatties aren't liking your profile. Fat women are like a plague on dating apps. I just wanted a thin woman all I get is fatties and trannies ugh it's so tiresome.
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>>34900030
Well no shit retard. If he was attractive he would've said that. If he was in shape or muscular he also wouldn't have missed the chance to point that out either. He's probably fat and ugly. What's the point in saying that though when he's just gonna probably hear the same exact responses he's been hearing his entire fat and ugly life.
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>>34899808
uh little does he know I'm an actual woman...I'm not trans...? honestly your less of a man than you think and this is literally why people like you don't have any attention from us (don't be this guy). I gave this guy advice coming from a girl, your genuinely mad that he's not getting the attention you want to receive. not to mention when you type with explanation points obviously your trying to be nice and friendly! that's literally what this guy needed!! I really hope you can grow as a person and think outside your small brain <3
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>>34894909
If you’ve lifted for 10 years and are below 25 bmi you’re either ridiculously shredded and good job if so, or you suck at lifting. 3-4 years of lifting should get you above 25 bmi with abs
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>>34894909
you should alt/nichemax if you want matches on dating apps, even if you're not ugly looking generic doesn't work
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>>34900030
>your bio
My what
>>34901366
I'm not OP but I'm just two years younger and in his position while certifiably attractive (used to model). In my case it was mental issues that lead to me avoiding interactions with women like the plague, even with the ones hitting on me.
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>>34899430
everybody says this but it never happens
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>>34899430
>The moment I stopped caring about finding a girlfriend is when one just fell into my lap.
Cunts who parrot this should be sentenced to at elast 20 years manual labour.
No, you do not get laid without trying. No, sex does not "fall inot your lap". Those things do not happen.
And as you prove, even if you go about it like this you're up shit creek without a paddle again if she ever leaves so you have no choice but to cling to that skirt in desperation.
Learn how to talk to women, learn to deal with rejection and open the pussy tap instead of hoping for some princess to save you from your dragon.

t. former Wizard who decided to larp as a PUA one day, and it worked
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>>34903971
You sound like a retarded nigger talking out of your ass.
'larp as a PUA one day'
Okay so you ARE a retarded nigger that doesn't know shit. Makes sense fucktard.
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>>34894909
well you got nothing left to lose, show us your pics. worst that happens if anyone you know finds you would be to pity you and maybe hook you up. but show us what makes a 37 y/o turbovirgin these days.

im 37 too, but i look way younger, been told early 20s, and i still have a sliver of hope i could lose my technical virginity the right way and find a girl that's worth it, before giving up and resorting to hooker. in the pre-tinder world I had 5 longterm meaningful relationships, 0 hookups, though I had the chance to, and turned them down, waiting for true love. when my oneitis cheated, now i kinda just wanna make up for lost time with only fun, especially as zoomer girls are sluttier than ever.

i get matches on dating apps purely for looks, i don't even have a bio, but they're usually ugly, trans, 3000mi away, pitching her OF, or ghost after chatting awhile. and lot of ok/good black women match me and even message first but I don't want them. I wonder what I'm doing to attract that, I'm white. i consider myself HTN/chadlite, not chad. I'll never be chad like my friend that gets to facefuck any girl he wants that night, but I'll work out more and try to get a better job, try to be more social and then I'll be much better.

i do have stuff to lose if anyone finds me here, but you don't. so show us and maybe someone can help you.
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>>34894909
you have to get rich and buy eggs from supermodels and implant them in cheaper women. its the future of how successful men will have kids.
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>>34901366
>He's probably fat and ugly.
he said
>lifted weights for over 10 years, below 25 BMI
it doesn't matter if you're hot if you look and sound like a creep, it offsets everything else
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>>34899773
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