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what should I do bros?

I got into a relationship with my supervisor from work, shes 3 years older then me and we were friends before we started dating. I always had a crush on her but I kept it lowkey. Evntually we hooked up and she asked me if I wanted to start dating, I said yes becuase I've never had a gf before. The issue lies in, when we were friends she told a lot of her hoe stories and back then I couldn't care less but now that we're dating I can't shake it off. Like I genuinely get pissed off thinking about the shit that she has told me that she has done. And I know it's my fault for accepting to date her knowing all of this before hand, but I honestly forgot about it in the heat of the moment when I accepted. And I'm 2 months in to the relationship and I feel like im in too deep to back out now, plus we have a trip in October to a different city for a festival so it would be awkward af if we broke up. But the only reason I stay with her is because she's genuinely a really good gf and is so loving and caring, and honestly obsessed over me, which I love and hate, because I feel like the only reason she's like that with me is because i'm the first guy to treat her nicely and knowing she gave it up to guys who treated her like shit and im the only dumbass sho treats her nicely pisses me off as well. What should I do? breakup with her for her past or should I stay with her because apart from that detail she genuinely makes me happy and feel loved.
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>>34897910
Either you do stuff in bed that no one else has done to her or you cope.
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>>34897910
>she told a lot of her hoe stories
does she fuck still or has she suddenly become a trad?
if she fucks, keeps her until she quits, then dump and move on
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Have you fucked her in the ass and made her suck your dick after? That's hot.
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>>34897910
We need to know what she did that was so whoreful.
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>>34897910
>And I know it's my fault for accepting to date her knowing all of this before hand,
It is 100% your fault, yes. And you need to break up with her and let her find someone who doesn't have a problem with this. She deserves better than you. So long as you are with her, pretending to like her, she can't find someone she can really be happy with. And the longer you wait before breaking up with her, the more you will hurt her when you do. Do it now, before things get even worse.
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>>34897910
>with my supervisor from work
dogshit for brains retarded moron level decision. if you break up with her you lose your fucking job, and people in the area will know that you date coworkers and cause issues. your only hope is going to be break up, get fired, move cities, and start your life completely over. that or accept that one day you're going to come home to her get triple teamed by nasty ghetto gorilla niggers.
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>>34897910
you're stuck or you lose your job and she will probably make sure you never get hired again. Probably you have to get married now.
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fake!
friends dont date. friends are judt friends.
fake n gay
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>>34897910
>I’m the only person that treated her right
>she’s a hoe
First off, everyone before you treated her well before she did some hoe shit which caused them to get upset and yell at her which she then labeled “verbally abusive” or whatever. My recommendation for you is to NEVER move in and live with this person. This will make it possible for you to spend as much free time as you can getting another job. Hopefully you find a job before she reveals her true self to you and you flip out and become victim number 137 and lose your job.
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>>34897910
Who cares. Both sluts and virgins are hot.
See her more as you senior, as if a hot teacher chose to fuck a teen student. Who cares in that case if she fucked a lot of guys, unless she fucked niggers it's fine.
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>>34897910
>knowing she gave it up to guys who treated her like shit and im the only dumbass sho treats her nicely pisses me off as well
Same
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Yeah, spend your life ALONE and CHILDLESS just because of your RETARDED PREJUDICE about women who had more than one partner before you. No wonder there are so many incels, as MEN ARE THIS FUCKING RETARDED TO OSTRACIZE WOMEN WITH NORMAL SEXUAL ACTIVITY FOR NO REASON. If a woman does not get married it is normal for her to have the number of partners you said your girlfriend has had. Because women, too, get dumped. And they too, need to have sex life, preferably relationships, not to end up as social outcasts, as no one wants to be friend of a loser who has no sex life. And if you haven't got friends irl, to post pictures of on your social media page, you won't have following, and if you haven't got that, you won't be hired by anyone either. As no one follows a loser with no friends and no one hires a loser with no following. So, if a woman stays a pure virgin or has one brief relationship as a result of being dumped, before getting married in her late twenties or early thirties, SHE WILL DROP OUT OF SOCIETY AND BECOME A NEET for the rest of her life.

Whatever, rot alone, idiot.

And yeah, I'm not going to check the replies as there will be a PACK OF RETARDS concluding on the basis of my post that I am some kind of a "roastie". To make such a conclusion is just SO FUCKING RETARDED IT MAKES ME WANT TO TRASH PLACES OR BEAT SOMEONE UP. And as I can't I will have a panic attack. So bye, just stick it into your skulls what I said
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>>34897910
I'm a 50 year old virgin. The girl I should have married was a friend, we went to sane college, as an underclassmen she told me about how she fucked 12 guys even a black one
Couple years later she was a nice wholesome person not doing any of that anymore and she wanted too hook up. She gave me a nice long window to hook up with her last months but I blew it off because I couldn't get over how she has slept with 12 guys a few years before

But yeah within a few years I realized passing on her was dumb and it's been like that ever since

TLDR: a girl who has the potential you to make you a happy many for the next 80 years shouldn't be brushed off so flippantly because you're only going to get a few opportunities, maybe only this one

Don't blow it
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>>34897910
Stay with her, but if there's a better option, you can take that instead.
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>>34897910
If you want a virgin, your window was when you were 15.
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>>34897910
What is it about guys that befriend girls and the friendship centers around her bragging to him about fucking guys.
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>>34898170
>the only thing that matters is the woman and only her feelings matter
Where do you people even come from kek? Is this just trolling at this point?
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>>34900364
This reads like one of those tirades by a guy who’s 5’2” and is having a meltdown that women name height as a preference
REEE GOOD MEN ARE SHORT SOMETIMES
WOMEN HAVE SUCH A RETARDED PREJUDICE
But it’s not a retarded prejudice. It is something that actually does matter to those women. The only people who get pissed off are short guys.
Only sluts get mad when people don’t thoughtlessly accept the sluttery.
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>>34897910
Tell us some of the stories OP
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>>34897910
Would your mom be okay with you dating this girl?
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2 months is not "in too deep." Anything short of marriage is fair grounds to break up with her, and if you're repulsed and insecure about her past, I probably would honestly. Staying in a relationship out of guilt, or needing to settle is retarded. Man up, decide what you need to do, and do it.
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>>34900422
Why are you a 50 year old virgin what was the reason? You went to college and a girl found you attractive enough to offer to hookup. Why didn't you have any pull with any other girls? Why haven't you gotten it done with a hooker by now? Are you religious?
At least you got to experience the 80s. I miss it and I wasn't there, but everything and everyone seemed so much better then. If I could I'd go there, thrive as a rockstar, find love because it could exist then, and keep looping time shortly after 9/11 where nothing will ever get better.
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>>34897910
>I'm 2 months in to the relationship and I feel like im in too deep to back out now
no you're not.
the point of no return is when you get her pregnant -> BE CAREFUL
have some fun and dump her when novelty wears off. you sound young, better get some experience under your belt before shackling yourself to some older promiscuous woman



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