I used to be a cute emo twink but now I am a balding 27 year old who can't be emo as a result How can I become attractive to girls my own age?
>>34898101estrogen
>>34898101>balding Cut it short and progressively shorter as you bald until just shaving it. Not a woman, but balding dudes with very short hair look completely normal. It's when they have medium / long hair running up to a bald spot that it looks fucking disgusting.>>34898617For the love of god, we don't need another bald guy trooning out. Not transphobic, but people need to be real with themselves about whether they can pull it off or if they'll look like even more of a freak.
>>34898101Name
>>34898101You idolize your looks and now it all falls apart just like all idols
>>34898101Get a wig
>>34898101First off, don't use twink unless you're a fag because that's our word and we don't want you getting pussy juices on it.Second, twink death is predictable. The best solution is to start weight lifting in your early 20s so you can go through a transitionary twunk phase in your late 20s and then be a fit dude in your 30s. Frame matters a lot. If you're tall, skinny, and youthful-looking, you might be able to get away with being emo or fem for a while longer. Good hair and a slight frame could also work for copying the aesthetic of aging glam rock stars like Bowie in later years. Idk about balding. You might be able to do a full-masc reversal and focus on beard, flannels, etc. But it will be a completely opposite aesthetic from what is liked by the girls you used to get.When you hit your 30s, you'll stop caring anyway and realize life goals and accomplishments matter much more than TikTok aesthetic reels.
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>>34899155That ain’t a forehead that’s a fivehead
Past 25 I expect the men to be masculine. 18-22 I was dating femboys/twinks.I don't think you need to worry about twink death if you're looking for girls around your age
>>34898101Twinks are disgusting.
>>34899130>But it will be a completely opposite aesthetic from what is liked by the girls you used to get.That made me think, should I give up on the idea of being liked by those girls and move on to something else? If I do focus on growing a beard, flannels etc what type of girls are into that sort of style?
>>34898101twink death was 6-7 years ago unc, it sounds like you're just not handsome anymore
>>34898617have you ever seen a troon irl that made you think "wow I want to become like this person" ? Get off the internet
>>34898101>>34899782Yo OP there are like at least 10 different effective treatments for balding. Copper peptides, minoxidl, various pills etc. Look it up. This is basic knowledge. Idk how you don't know this shit, don't you use Google?
>>34899834If you followed your own advice you will know that it does affect your hormones and it can lead to depression, watery semen or even erectile dysfunction, it sucks to lose your hair but I will choose my health over my vanity
>>34899846That's finasteride that does that. Not copper peptides not saw Palmetto + pumpkin seed oil. Not even minoxidl. You were going bald because your retarded? Lamo do some actual research. It's fucking retarded that so many men are walking around bald for literally no fucking reason.
>>34899834>>34899853You're going to feel so dumb when you're 40 and you're more bald than everyone you know
>>34899857I'm 33 with a full head of hair but look at this. You are attacking me instead of taking on the information I'm giving you and putting it to good use. Why are you sabotaging yourself like this? Why are you so illogical? I'm the only person here to give you relevant information.
>>34899853Fair, I agree but Minoxidil does give you heart problems in the long run so it's best to be avoided but I didn't consider the other options so I apologize if I came across as hostile earlier
>>34899872This wasn't be >>34899857
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>>34899886>>34899890It's all good. You gotta do what you can to prevent balding. I feel like bald men face discrimination not just in dating. It's a terrible disadvantage
>>34899908I know, it does suck. Do you have balding family members? You said you had a head full of hair, is it because of your prevention treatment?In my case I definitely have it in my family although my grandfather had hair until he died, in my case stress definitely sped things upOther than palmetto, pumpking seed oil and copper peptides is there anything else I should check on? I think I heard rosemary oil could potentially work but I might be mistaken
>>34899941Dad and his dad were/are bald. Dad was balding by my age. On my mother's side men tend to have thick hair. Rosemary oil apparently isn't that effective but it still has some results. Right now all I'm doing is using this Scandinavian biolabs shampoo, your supposed to use it and their hair serum but I find washing once a day with the shampoo is enough. It's more to prevent hair loss but I am definitely gonna use copper peptides if thr shampoo stops being effective.
>>34899961Yeah, that's a good plan. Are you against treatments like finasteride or dutasteride or are you contemplating the idea of taking them at some point? I personally wouldn't but my cousin takes it and he is getting results
>>34899994I wouldn't mess with that stuff but it does work. In the next few years they're gonna come out with shit that's more effective than anything on the market today. I forget what the shit is called but in Taiwan they're testing this shit that looks very promising and will be available in the next few years. Of course it might be horrendously expensive but there are a lot of developments going on.
>>34900026Fingers crossed. The thing that has affected me the most is stress I would say, my hair has gotten way worse after I decided to travel and work in different countries so all of that combined with poor mental health has definitely taken a toll on my looks so I should focus on reducing my stress levels while I combine them with natural treatmentsI don't expect my hair to grow back but maybe I could slow it and work with a buzzcut for a couple of years but my main issue would be my mental health affecting my physical looks
>>34900043You should look into sunekos if you feel your face is looking older. It's a facial injection that works way better than botox and isn't too expensive. It lasts for about 6 months and even reduces the appearance of nasolabial folds.
>>34899872>>34899886>>34899890>>34899893>>34899908>>34899941>>34899961>>34899994>>34900026>>34900043I'm 50 with a full head of hair but I'd rather be bald then live the paranoid life you guys are living
>>34900057To be honest my face doesn't look too bad it's mostly about my hair and body/posture, I don't drink, smoke or do drugs so my skin doesn't look that old, it's the thinning hair and unkept beard that creates that older look>>34900063Fair
>>34898101bro my manager who has no teeth and is balding literally just pulled a goddess. theyre both freaks that are into rock music. women really do not care about looks
You can still be badass you just have to find the right look. The lead singer from Disturbed is bald.
>>34899474>women in their prime like guys that look like twinks but women over the hill prefer masculine men
